"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay a few days ago I stumbled across some videos on youtube.com and anyways there actually really good and interesting, theres 5 parts but believe me its worth it. Its about 3 dudes trying to pick up chicks, and theres 2 DJ dudes trying to help these guys out. anyways check it out. And remember watch them in order,enjoy.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DYn4-h3Cnk
part 1


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_C4ELcauk4

part 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39S_Z3R4KWg

part 3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hFIlBT_T0d8
part 4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KI3f4Z0ybis

part 5
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"i wish i would have done this when i was 17"

haha baby im 17. rock on!
 

LAWYER

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these guys are hilarious. one guy took 30 min just to aprouch... I Learn something new... i though guys from England have no problems about women....
 

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oh snap i always though guys from england are natural DJ's... anyways they are just like americans... any dj here who can answer this though... my friend from ireland said that a black guy cant get too friend with an irish girl.
 

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LAWYER said:
oh snap i always though guys from england are natural DJ's... anyways they are just like americans... any dj here who can answer this though... my friend from ireland said that a black guy cant get too friend with an irish girl.
uk dudes are NOT smooth. when most girls from riga and tallinn think of british dudes they think of sloppy drunk dudes who dress up as spiderman and stumble through old town making a fool of themselves. tallinn and riga might have some of the most beautiful girls on the planet. they love american guys first, followed by western europeans. even the turks can get lots of respect. uk dudes, on the other hand, are not favored. it is their own fault.

avoid uk girls. they are as bad as north american girls. poor genetics combined with too much wealth. a bad combination. every pathetic drunk british dude is in vilnius, riga, or tallinn now for a reason. it isn't because of the cool architecture. funny thing, they are so unsmooth that they still can't find girls who will listen to them. this coming from places where my ugly mug literally attracts girls as though i were a rock star.

ireland is an amazing economic success story. tons of eastern europeans are fighting to go there so they can be maids or pick fruit. tons of black dudes in the uk/ireland. black dudes have it much harder in eastern europe than in uk/western europe. bad for them and better for those of us who are not black :yes:

ireland has some amazing scenery, but it doesn't extend to the girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sparky0000 said:
uk dudes are NOT smooth. when most girls from riga and tallinn think of british dudes they think of sloppy drunk dudes who dress up as spiderman and stumble through old town making a fool of themselves. tallinn and riga might have some of the most beautiful girls on the planet. they love american guys first, followed by western europeans. even the turks can get lots of respect. uk dudes, on the other hand, are not favored. it is their own fault.

avoid uk girls. they are as bad as north american girls. poor genetics combined with too much wealth. a bad combination. every pathetic drunk british dude is in vilnius, riga, or tallinn now for a reason. it isn't because of the cool architecture. funny thing, they are so unsmooth that they still can't find girls who will listen to them. this coming from places where my ugly mug literally attracts girls as though i were a rock star.

ireland is an amazing economic success story. tons of eastern europeans are fighting to go there so they can be maids or pick fruit. tons of black dudes in the uk/ireland. black dudes have it much harder in eastern europe than in uk/western europe. bad for them and better for those of us who are not black :yes:

ireland has some amazing scenery, but it doesn't extend to the girls.
What the hell are you talking about?
 

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What the hell are you talking about?
Now THAT i second. sparky has clearly never paid attention to the effect that UK guys have.

Im from the UK and I think we've established pretty firmly how smooth i am. Not that I like to brag. It's common knowledge that American girls love British guys. It's amazin 2 see the amount of ****heads on this forum who DONT no that.

And what about James Bond? Bond is British. Ever stop and think of that?
 

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guys stop fighting. Did you guys atleast enjoy the movies? and did you learn anything from them?
 

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underdog said:
guys stop fighting. Did you guys atleast enjoy the movies? and did you learn anything from them?
yea it was a review of what i already knew. not bad none the less, but im sure it will help the people just starting or who are in a bind.
 

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DJ Axton said:
Now THAT i second. sparky has clearly never paid attention to the effect that UK guys have.

Im from the UK and I think we've established pretty firmly how smooth i am. Not that I like to brag. It's common knowledge that American girls love British guys. It's amazin 2 see the amount of ****heads on this forum who DONT no that.

And what about James Bond? Bond is British. Ever stop and think of that?
Mate you're spot on. Having a British accent especially queen's english adds like 2 to your score (out of ten).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dj Axton i agrea most of the if all the british guys i know are Extrem DJ... Like Bond.... and Sparkyooo i would rather go out with a british girl than an america they are so much more girly... in general... but alot of them do have bad genetics. a few are fine though, i met some real hot ones:cool:
 

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I saw this a few weeks ago. This is great for anyone that thinks their apprearance is holding them back from approaching and attracting beautiful women.

Juggler and his friend (didn't catch the name) just shows it can be done, no matter who you are.
 

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You'd be amazed how many people are sort of like this.
"DJs" are very rare, to be honest, that's why people remember "the natural" at school.
 

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That was a fun hour's watching, inspirational!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kev07 hey your welcome man. I hope to find some more great videos.
 

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lol thanks for the links, I can relate to those guys haha nice one
 

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Wow that was the most painfull thing I have ever seen. The girls they asked them to approach at first where way too hot for them.

BTW The guys they picked are not what typical English guys are like they purposely picked three social misfits, thats the point of the show.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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