"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Videos/Audio of Live Pickups

OfficeSpace

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I'm wondering if any of you have seen video clips or audio clips of pickups as they happen? I think it would be really cool to see something like that. I've tried searching on google, but I haven't hit any results... Does anyone know of any places online that carry this sort of thing?

I think this sort of material would be awesome for someone learning! You would be able to observe body language and tone of voice, etc...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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brenbaus

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there was a clip floating around awhile ago (when style first put his book "THE GAME" out) that showed a sort-of pick up, other than that there is nothing else i know of
 

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yahoo video search...type in picking up girl or hitting on girl or something like that.

sucks that google doesnt have a vid search.
 

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dannowillbookem said:
yahoo video search...type in picking up girl or hitting on girl or something like that.

sucks that google doesnt have a vid search.
Thanks bro I'll give that a try... You would think that with all the guys into pick-ups, there would be a site with some footage of these people at their game!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've got a handful of videos that I got through an old link a long time ago here on the forum... since it appears that the old site is down, I'm putting them all up on mine for the next 48 hours.

These videos are freely produced and distributed in their original, unedited format. You may share them with others in the community so long as you do not alter their content in any way, shape, or form.


http://www.jbspencer.com/pickup.zip 118MB.
 

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www.puamedia.com

A lot of the sarges aren't really that great, but you can learn from watching them nonetheless.
 
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