"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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video: Why online dating is perfect for men but terrible for women

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy

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If I were a woman I’d probably not use OLD. Who wants to get 200 messages per day from AFC? The ones who do use just want attention
 

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Interesting. In the end I think both sexes lose out when playing within the online dating realm as you’re not getting a firsthand look at a potential partner. It’s so contrived. 10/10 dates I’ve gone to the woman is physically different and speaks different than her profile reads. It’s an awful gauge.
 
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