"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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video: Why Men Are Alone. The Ugly Truth Women Don't Want to Hear.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ricky

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seems like a nice guy and he makes good points
 

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His remarks between 1:05-1:30 highlight the bitter irony that's permeated much of The Manosphere, since about the first year of it's inception:

We have a legion of overgrown adolescents who go out of their way to look like extras in a flick from Chuck Norris's heyday at Cannon, bemoaning(not unjustifiably)the fact that so many women today look like Inked magazine's latest cover girl. The finger wagging these fellas so often resort to is no less absurd than Xi Jingping lambasting Putin for high handedness
 

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Yeah there is too much negativity among men and women sense this and it isn’t attractive
 
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