You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What is so great about banging tramps? I would consider it getting a freebie from a hoar.That said, I always go back to the guy who used to get laid the most off Tinder that I knew was 5'4! I lived with him for a year, dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.
I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.dude was a natural alpha. Pure game, banged some of the hottest trashy women. Tattoos, big fake tits etc etc. Game makes all the difference.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I agree but it's what most guys seem to think the goal is. There was some definite HB8 and 9's in there. But they were typically young and/or damaged.I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.
He has very narrow shoulders too. Did he miss the part about hitting the gym?
What is so great about banging tramps? I would consider it getting a freebie from a hoar.
That's a no true scotsman though unless you can make an objective standard of what counts and doesn't count that everyone agrees on which isn't obviously biased, something simple like "no trannies, no fatties, no addicts, no mentally ill chicks, etc."I'm with MatureDJ on this. Okay, he gets laid a lot, but I'm not sure that banging a bunch of trash makes you alpha.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm not saying it isn't an accomplishment, maybe it is to him. I'm just saying that alone doesn't necessarily make him an alpha.But if you can just use arbitrary standards like "she's not hot enough" or "she's not classy enough" then you could do that about any girl and suddenly banging taylor swift isn't an accomplishment lol
A heavy doze of puzzy will calm that down.Typical nerdy personality, excessive body language/hand movements + with a squint eye = not attractive
Just like how on two and a half men: Alan a broke man ****ed by multiple divorces criticizes his much richer brother for banging but not committing to a series of hot young bimbos, of course there will be sour grapes lolBy the way lol, I'm sure there are a lot of guys here who would tell you that Taylor Swift is hideous and that banging her isn't an accomplishment.
Sure but it adds to the difficulty of getting her and adds to the audience of people who will know and respect you for your great deedBesides, status isn't really an attraction factor when it comes to women. I guess it would make for some bragging rights, I guess, or turn into a song![]()
Sounds a little stalker-ish.The money is more important tbh, going out with a really rich girl would be a blast since iirc taylor swift once bought a house next door to some guy she was dating so clearly she's not shy about spoiling her men
Just like everyone would congratulate some girl if she got to blow some rock star backstage, eh?Sure but it adds to the difficulty of getting her and adds to the audience of people who will know and respect you for your great deed
Oh yeah it was pretty creepy and stalkerish, hilarious when that relationship didn't last longSounds a little
If you had any investment in her sexual conquests or liked to talk about wild sex stories with her: sure.Just like everyone would congratulate some girl if she got to blow some rock star backstage, eh?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well i'm jealous tbh! Did he have an EXCEPTIONALLY handsome face out of interest? I can't imagine a guy that short banging loads of really hot girls to be completely honest. Especially on tinder!!! Also , how old was he? (you say some of the girls were 'very young')There was some definite HB8 and 9's in there. But they were typically young and/or damaged.
To be fair, he is attractive. Bad boy covered in tatts, plays in a band, Tinder profile was all professional photos of him playing in the band shirtless, showing all the tatts. Every woman I met that he hooked up with was basically the example of daddy issues so it's not like he was pulling top shelf women, but they were often hot. Still, very short and had the natural alpha mentality. He was in his 30's but looked younger. Point being though, he was shorter than almost all the women he dated, they knew his height before they met him. So height can be an issue, obviously, but don't let it defeat you.Well i'm jealous tbh! Did he have an EXCEPTIONALLY handsome face out of interest? I can't imagine a guy that short banging loads of really hot girls to be completely honest. Especially on tinder!!! Also , how old was he? (you say some of the girls were 'very young')
Tinder is less 'game' since you are already pre-selected so it's usually a matter of guaranteed sex as long as you don't COMPLETETLY screw it up on the meet. Again, hard to imagine with a 5ft4 guy but i'll take your word for it!
Ah, he plays in a band, that explains a lot.To be fair, he is attractive. Bad boy covered in tatts, plays in a band, Tinder profile was all professional photos of him playing in the band shirtless, showing all the tatts.
Captain, that statement is highly illogical.Ah, he plays in a band, that explains a lot.
But the guy in the "first time with dumbbells" video is shirtless, too. Maybe some girls will see it and that will get him laid.![]()
Illogical, but... human.Captain, that statement is highly illogical.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.