"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi All,

Personally, I am better at learning through watching than reading. When I read something I have to think real hard to try and remember it all.

I am looking for links to video tutorials that actually show interactions from start to finish in different locations, settings, etc.

And please don't suggest that I go to a club/bar etc and 'watch' interactions. I've seen this suggestion before and it's crazy.
Every girl in sight will notice and immediately target you as an 'AFC'.

I await your suggestions/resources.

Thanks
Jason
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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as much talk as there is, finding a video of "in the field" game is puirty hard. As far as i know NOT EVEN David D. does in his DVD series.... animal crackers & another guy made a O.K. one once, they might send it to you if you pm them.....
 

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There are many videos out there, but unfortunately I've never seen a single successful pick up demonstrated on video.

Besides, videos (or reading material) can't help you learn confidence or help you relax in your environment. Being successful with women is less about what you do and more about how you do it.
 

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[/B][/QUOTE] And please don't suggest that I go to a club/bar etc and 'watch' interactions. I've seen this suggestion before and it's crazy.

Nothin' crazy about it, especially if you're watching someone good.

No girl is going to be able to label you anything for sitting back and minding your own business. Girls dig the strong silent type. Besides, if you're going to watch and learn and not to pick up, then who cares what they label you as anyway?


BrotherAP :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some of my friends are insanely masterful DJs.

They are so good that they dont even try anymore. They go to bars, just sit there, maybe chat to people and just watch pick up attempts to remember when there was some excitement to it.

then if they feel like banging they will look around see the girl that wants to **** them. Wave to them with a dismissive acknowledgment of their presence and make a merciful gesture for them to come over and talk.

It lasts about 10 seconds and its off to the sex.

You can go to a bar and sit like a brick if its what you like to do.
 
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