"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This author has some wonderful content:

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just started to watch it, but come on, 58 minutes man.

Any highlights you wanted to bring up?
 

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The first few minutes are the best, but it's good all throughout.
I did look at the first few minutes and trailed off afterwards.

I'm really divided about it, and don't tend to use it that often anyway. OF is not something I feel totally comfortable with to say the least.
 

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I did look at the first few minutes and trailed off afterwards.

I'm really divided about it, and don't tend to use it that often anyway. OF is not something I feel totally comfortable with to say the least.
you are paying for only fans?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you are paying for only fans?
Yes, there are currently three active subscriptions, but I usually take off the re-bill so it doesn't renew. There has been no recent visit to the site in over a week.
 

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Yes, there are currently three active subscriptions, but I usually take off the re-bill so it doesn't renew. There has been no recent visit to the site in over a week.
I've never been tempted honestly, it seems like a blackhole and I know may young guys that use it as a parasocial escape. By supporting it, they also support women's immoral behavior and further exacerbate the problem. I'll keep my distance from it
 

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I remember reading (perhaps here :rolleyes: ) about some guy that heard that a hottie from his high school was on OnlyFans, and so he signed up for a month just to "scratch that itch about what she looked like naked".

I think before I would sign up for OnlyFans, I would buy tokens at Chaturbate (using BitCoin of course), as the strip-joint paradigm there is something with which I'm familiar. :rolleyes: There are a lot of performers that require that the chatter have tokens in the bank to be able to talk to them.
 
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