You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Nothing is more cringey than learning "escalator game".You‘re totally right. I can‘t watch their content anymore. Alone Richard Coopers intro is heavly cringeworthy to me
It reminds me of hearing story's of Britain's colonial wars in Africa during the 19th century. When African tribes would face the British army in battle they would get gunned down so in response the witch doctor of the tribe would give the warriors "magic" body paint. They where told it would make them bullet proof. But when they engaged the British again they would get gunned down despite the "magic". When the survivors met the witch doctor again naturally they said the "magic" did not work. The witch doctor replied that the only reason why they died when they got shot is because they did not believe hard enough in the "magic". So try again. This is a good analogy for PUA. Pick up artist coaches are the modern day equivalent of witch doctors. It is always your fault when the magic dose not work.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.