"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Video Report: "Ran Into Some Pua guys" WOW!!!

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Intro: I forgot I had this(it's 3 months old), this was my first time going out with Kbot, It was colder then a mother that day (20 below) it was a thursday, We went to Uptown, it was dead,

the second to last bar we went to, we ran into some real Pua guys, Kbot and I were outnumberd (just me and him) and 6 of them



http://en.sevenload.com/videos/yPm64mu-The-missing-Field-report
^^Kbot giving the FR, muahahaha

Solo's Version:

1. The first bar we go in, Kbot sees a red head with her friend, he goes in set stays in there for a solid 10-15 mintues and number closes

2. One of the other bars we go in, there is a guy drunk of his ass, we go in and blow him out without trying, the girls are happy that we "save them", it's just a bunch of fluff talk they end up going somewhere else.

3. I get blown out, using Kbot's indirect cheescake opener at the spot where the PUA's are at, the girls call my b.s. ("we watch the mystery show")I get blown out (after that I never used it again,):down:

3.5 Kbot is in the middle of the set, where the PUA's are at, he says someting about sex and food, all of a sudden this girl literally runs into KBot, The PUA's look dumbfounded(lol at Kbot using those d-bags as pivots). Kbot leaves and they asking him not to bounce. I'm just chilling from across the room, I shoudla recorded it, it was a classic moment:up:

4. In the last spot, Kbot and I are cheesing, we go in set (one chick)and are just bull****ting("You suppose to be my agent, this ain't where it's at"). This chick is blowing us off, Kbot goes to the bathroom, and the chick gets on the bar tenders nuts asking him "to hook him up" by getting in the bar for free in the futrue . The bar tender replies back by saying "I'm not the bouncer I can't get you in for free" the chick feels stupid(I mean she looked shocked), and I laugh (Karma!!) overall a dead ass night.

The end.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have yet to run into PUA ala Mystery Method user type of guys. It would be funny as hell to watch these guys attempt a pick up.

Natural game is where it's at, Solo. I can tell you aren't the type of dude to use canned pickup material because most of it so cheesy that you don't come off very genuine blurting the lines out. The key is being genuine and believing your own $hit.

Some guys however are fine with using canned material because they make it seem like they really believe their $hit and hence, come off genuine.
 

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The Bat said:
I have yet to run into PUA ala Mystery Method user type of guys. It would be funny as hell to watch these guys attempt a pick up.

Natural game is where it's at, Solo. I can tell you aren't the type of dude to use canned pickup material because most of it so cheesy that you don't come off very genuine blurting the lines out. The key is being genuine and believing your own $hit.

Some guys however are fine with using canned material because they make it seem like they really believe their $hit and hence, come off genuine.

Bat you know my steez

I always go in natural, but Kbot challenged me, and who am i too turn down a challenge?

No excuses though

@DTP-- Girls are "hip" to the game, they watch all the shows, they know who Mystery is mayne....That canned ish is dead (well in my city anyway)
 

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Aah I see a battle of the egos going on here. In reality you guys are taking up a whole page of this forum defending mental positions and calling each other out, it's either that or you guys are joking.

Anyways to the OP am gonna have to disagree with you on the race thing. I myself am black I've lived in neighborhood full of hood kids and still attracted girls outside my race particularly Asian girls and some whites. I don't live up to my stereotype and my social circle is made up of all sort of races around the globe. The Asian girls I've dated even complimented on how unique chill and different I was, I even got looks from other Asian girls, the ones you would assume will never fall out thier race. The funny thing is this back then when I had 0 game with semi confidence and afcness. What I'm trying to say is don't let this limiting belief of your race hold you back and don't live up to the damn stereotypes, just be the inner genuine you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBat, I seen a guy at a bar grabbing a girls hands with his and moving them around like mystery does. I said hey I seen that on VH1, he go nervous and she said he is trying to get rid of her hiccups.
 

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1337 said:
Aah I see a battle of the egos going on here. In reality you guys are taking up a whole page of this forum defending mental positions and calling each other out, it's either that or you guys are joking.

Anyways to the OP am gonna have to disagree with you on the race thing. I myself am black I've lived in neighborhood full of hood kids and still attracted girls outside my race particularly Asian girls and some whites. I don't live up to my stereotype and my social circle is made up of all sort of races around the globe. The Asian girls I've dated even complimented on how unique chill and different I was, I even got looks from other Asian girls, the ones you would assume will never fall out thier race. The funny thing is this back then when I had 0 game with semi confidence and afcness. What I'm trying to say is don't let this limiting belief of your race hold you back and don't live up to the damn stereotypes, just be the inner genuine you.
This is some old ass **** (not that old but old enough)
personally I don't remember me talking about race @ all but then I haven't watched this Video in over 6 months, I've dated/boned many girls outside my race as well, not bragging just stating facts.....

Glad someone is "watching" my old Fr's eeeh

peace
 
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