"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Video Recording Approaches

Daddy The Pimp

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Guys , on Saturday me and my wing are going to film our approaches .

Its gonna be nice day , so we're going to a campus with dormitory of university students and everything there . We're planning to do a lot of approaches and we're gona tape them :D . I hope we can get a F Close because dormitory is really near and we can have fun there :D .

I hope we're gonna post videos here too .

Anyway , this thread is about this . If you have come up with any good opener that you dont have balls to try it just throw it here . We're going to try it and report back and you can see our body language and how we apply kino and some other sh!t on vid's i think .

Just throw it here and we're going to try .

We're going to open a lot of sets maybe like 50 .

Cheers :cheer:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChapStick

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Daddy The Pimp said:
I might put it on metacafe but its gonna be there only for limited time .
You should definitely do that! Use a digital recorder to capture the audio if you can and sync it in the video. Looking forward to seeing some videos man :)
 

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Most people don;'t realize a lot of the sef-adapters they use like toughing face, moving around while talking, etc. Even if you can't get audio, I think you'll benefit a lot from seeing yourself on tape. Just don't beat yourself up if you catch something odd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Fvck i went out today with my wing and there was no fvcking set :cuss:

Its rainy day , and we just saw womens going from work to house , and homeless peoples . Sh1t .

We were ready :( . We had prepared our openers and routines .
We got a voice recorder , camera and everything . But weather is not in our side . We're gonna go out tomorrow (if good weather ) or on next week .

Stay connected :p
 
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