"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Video Of Me Doing A Direct Approach 1 Year Ago, eye contact is very important

sorin

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Nevermind the third person way of saying things, just enjoy the Video FR :).

>>>

This is an approach in a restaurant. (we did the best we could to film this
without appearing suspicious)

First of all Sorin was having fun with his friends at a table...
He sees this chick and starts looking at her... Pauses... Then looks back...
This goes on for a couple of times... the chick sees that and responds...
She looks at Sorin trying to intimidate him... but instead... Sorin locks
powerful eye contact... and after that he smiles... Immediately she
bursts into laughter ... she was at a table with 3 big rich guys who were
chatting her up. The guys start looking at Sorin and can't figure out what's
happening.

Later on Sorin gets the idea from a friend to wink at her and show her
they should meet at the bathroom, so he can extract her and close her.

He winks at her shows her the bathroom... she looks horrified... but after a few
minutes heads for the bathroom...

Sorin knows it's time so he goes for it...
He waits for her outside the ladies' bathroom where he looks in the mirror...

Then she comes out...

Sorin: I LIKE YOU... And I would like to get to know you.
Her: (extends her hand) telling Sorin her name...

You can see the rest in the movie if not the opener as well (not sure).

Observe how Sorin leans out when he talks, leaning on the wall.
Obseve how she leans in to talk to him.

Observe how he #closes at the end and they both get back as if nothing happened.

After he finishes dinner SOrin lives the restaurant, and looks at the chick
with all her friends around her. She waves at him and all his muscly macho
rich dudes look stunned and don't know what's happened.

Back at home she returns his phone calls. Hm... That easy?

>>>

And here's the video smile.gif

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2777242972427923558&pr=goog-sl
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All I could see is some bimbo have trouble with her tie LOL
 

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that wasnt even in english, how did u think this is a good video you nit wit
 

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did you read the FR?

did you see my body language and hers? at least slightly?

was the story credible to you from what you can see ( not that much but yet) in the video?
 

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You guys need to be more patience and read the thread. Good job on the approuch. The body language is great, not only do you make yourself feel relax but you made her feel relax too. By any chance you know Modeone method? because thats the same opener used by many guys there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DjDan said:
frate ce faci pe cacatul asta de website? dute pe altele mai bune, aicea nu este nimica bun de gasit... advertisement? incearca alta siteuri mai 'normale'.
Would you like to translate that now :yes:
 

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The naysayers will say that you can't compliment when you open, that you have to "fly under the radar" so you can "spit your game"

I didn't see the video, but I know when I use Direct method, which is a part of my lifestyle and not an opener or yeah, even a "method" that I get great reactions, even when the girl has a b/f, and might even "wing" for me and introduce me to her HB friend.

Direct works, but it is so much more than just an opener, or even a method.

You have to live it, otherwise, it won't be congruent and girls will see right thru it.
 

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Derek Flint said:
The naysayers will say that you can't compliment when you open, that you have to "fly under the radar" so you can "spit your game"

I didn't see the video, but I know when I use Direct method, which is a part of my lifestyle and not an opener or yeah, even a "method" that I get great reactions, even when the girl has a b/f, and might even "wing" for me and introduce me to her HB friend.

Direct works, but it is so much more than just an opener, or even a method.

You have to live it, otherwise, it won't be congruent and girls will see right thru it.
I have modeone
And bad Boy Lifestyle..

Whats another good book on Direct Gaming?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Slick101 said:
I have modeone
And bad Boy Lifestyle..

Whats another good book on Direct Gaming?
Shark and Razorjack have good material, but IMO, you have plenty.

Don't fall into the trap of being a reader and not a doer.

Go out and start putting that knowledge to practice.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Shark and Razorjack have good material, but IMO, you have plenty.

Don't fall into the trap of being a reader and not a doer.

Go out and start putting that knowledge to practice.
I know... I just want to learn more about Direct Method..

i cant really see the techniques that it has as Indirect gaming....

Whats sharks book called I cant find it?
 

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Oh yea, she's hot. Plays with her hair, leans forward. It's excellent!

A conversation flow would be nice though, in English please.
 

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the two in the back??? ohhhhhhhhh I watched the entire video and seriously thought any minute some dude was gonna come hit on the tie girl.... hell when no one approached her and time was running out, I damn near approached her myself "give me the fvcking tie, I will do it for you!".... guess I will have to watch it again.
 

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ok watched it again... yes much better, looks like things went well, and yeah she is hot!!!..... too bad she went home and fvcked a rich dude apparently.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why didn't you just post the FR without the video. :confused: It adds almost no value.
 

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Sorin is trying desperately to advertise everywhere his "seduction coaching classes" where you build an "authentic rapport" with some really ugly girls.

hunger is big in romania so he is trying to make a quick buck
 

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Holland said:
Why didn't you just post the FR without the video. :confused: It adds almost no value.
Easy, because Sorin is being exposed on the other seduction forums as the beggar and the scammer that he makes himself be, befriending guys and spamming everyone with PMs so he gets some victims to his "coaching seminars" where he sells himself for 600 euros
 

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^ Bah Humbug!

Good Stuff Sorin and of course Derek Flint for his comments. I know who u really are buddy at the D-M forum. Boiled Brain ;-). Direct Method is awesome!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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