I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
hammahamma said:I really don't think this was sta...un his show and his career would be finished.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You sure are gullible.Joe The Homophobe said:That looked real. You have to understand that late night hosts are known for having fueds with stars this thing with matt daemon isn't the first one. Letterman and Leno have also had similar stuff happen on their shows.
could you elaborate a bit more on this? i'm interested in learning how to keep a straight face.Bubs said:haha oh god. Check his expressions before he "explodes" will ya. When he did that "hello, how ya doin" bit, it was slightly un-natural. And he chucks up his chin alot. Thats what alot of actors do to stop from laughing or smiling too much, because they know what is coming. The same when you see their cheek bones cringe alittle while they keep a straight face, even in the major films. It's that bit of jawline right under their ear.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.