"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Video Lesson 1: Two and a Half men- DJ/Platespinning/Alpha-Beta Clip

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I've decided, to help out the guys here, to make a teaching tool out of any interesting video clips I find on the internet.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUBIQPp3m58&NR=1

This clip from two and a half men that's an excellent teaching clip for the guys here. In addition to being funny, it show three great things that every guy here should learn and incorporate into their minds and behaviors.

1. Platespinng/Replacability

To DJs women, espically women you are dating, are replacable. Don't chase them, replace them...... with a better model! Your heart is to be protected and any emotional commitment/pain is to be discarded asap once a woman is out of your life.

2. Men don't need empathy and cookies- those are for women. They need to man up and move on.

3. A Homework assignment:

The characters here all display a number of alpha behaviors and beta behaviors. Identify all the alpha and beta behaviors in this clip and state your reasons as to why you think that this behavior is either alpha or beta.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hah I liked the clip. As soon as you saw Charlie, he exuded alpha males qualities in his body language, and remained alpha throughout. The dad showed beta characteristics, apart from when he slammed the door in his ex wfie's face.
 
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I LOVE 2 and half men... its the funniest show on air right now in my opinion, plus its got all these wholesome and valuable life lessons.
 
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I was JUST watching it on TV, when I clicked this topic.


I've seen this episode before, Charlie has some game.
 
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