"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Video - Is buying the beer for a house party AFC behavior?

guywhoneedshelp

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We still debate this jokingly. Check this out:

http://extremebumming.com/amog.html ignore the first minute or so when the guy and the girl are in the car

I thought it was AFC to leave the party and pay for the beer, but he thought it was displaying high value. Nonetheless I did #close the girl whos house it was, because I guess she saw me to be somewhat responsible for all her friends having a good time
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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**** you,**** people like you,people like you are exactly the type of people I hate,you and people like you are what's wrong with the world,may you get arrested and be beaten within an inch of your life by the cops. Ohhh!!! Look at me!! I got my video camera and my idiot group of freinds,oh!!! I'm so cool!!! Get aids and die. **** long island and everyone on it.
 

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I see we have a keyboard jockey posting in this thread...

can you explain why you hate me? If you want, we can meet up and settle this man to man. I'm not kidding.
 
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why do I hate you? Cause of what you are and what you represent. People like you have always pissed me off my whole life.
 

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Whoa guys calm down i dont particularly like the camera idea also, but no need to go off on the guy for it you just sound like an immature little girl not a don jaun.

As for the question I haven't seen the video but i can imagine that buying the beer doesn't really matter. You could even turn it around and be ****y/funny with the girl saying that if you bought the beer she owes you a favor (i will let you imagine what the favor is :up:). However, dont buy the beer all the time and it is kind of afc to just buy beer when asked so you have to do it right and i would suggest getting the host of the party to pay for it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ah, good idea doing the ****y joke "you owe me a favor". I did #close the host, so I now I have a legit day 2 pull if I ever want it, I could say "hey you owe me for that beer run I funded."

Thanks for the helpful post. But what is the deal with this capedcrusader? I really want to fight this guy. I will seriously throw you through glass.
 
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oh yeah? well,ill make sure you're dead before you're hands even touch me,new york long island douchebag scum. I'm from Boston,so naturally,I don't like people from new york,and I don't like people like you.
 

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You have no chance. You will be thrown through glass before you even get a chance to say one word to me. Got a problem with New York? I don't care. You will be thrown through glass.
 
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Ok. Well,if our paths ever cross,I know what I need to do. You might think you have everything now,but if there is justice in this world,it will all come crashing down on you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You guys are both acting like morons. I sincerely hope you are joking about this throwing people through glass **** because its ****ing stupid. You shouldn't let anything affect your composure unless you need to step up to handle a situation and some piss ant post from some guy on a forum shouldn't get you ready to drive down town to beat the **** out of the guy.

Just let it roll of your back i am 100% sure you will be better that way
 

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Either way, I'm more alpha than him. And I will throw him through glass to prove it.
 

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.... its hopeless go through each other through glass have fun
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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guywhoneedshelp said:
We still debate this jokingly. Check this out:

http://extremebumming.com/amog.html ignore the first minute or so when the guy and the girl are in the car

I thought it was AFC to leave the party and pay for the beer, but he thought it was displaying high value. Nonetheless I did #close the girl whos house it was, because I guess she saw me to be somewhat responsible for all her friends having a good time
Saw the video, see a lot of the old myself in you. You're problem with the way you carry yourself is that you seem to be a little arrogant. You seemed to be trying to dominate your FRIEND. I think you are too wrapped up in "The Game", and all it's little tactics. Though you will receive quite some attention for being so dominant, and somewhat overtly confident, you need what we call compassion to really ascend in the Game, and perhaps develop a deeper understanding of not the Game, by social dynamics all together.
 

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^ Lust is %100 right.

This is the downside of having all this 'game', 'AFC' 'alpha' shyt posted everywhere. It is mis-interpreter ed by %90 of the people who read it, and they turn it into something else.

And I hope you are not serious by saying you will physically hurt someone to show them you are more alpha. If you are dead serious, then you have missed the point of this completely my friend.

Good luck.
 

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I will but fukk both of you, and then jump through the glass myself :-D
 

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LOL at Bonafide

Dude, from what you say in the video, it didn't seem AFC it seemed confident. It seemed like "Ok, this party needs more beer" and not "ohhh i'll go and get the beer mistress!" and yeah, i bet they missed your cult of personality.

You kinda defeated the purpose though in this this thread. Who the **** gives a **** about what someone else says in an internet forum?

You do seem very standoffish, that doesn't display confidence, it shows insecurity.

maybe now you're happy with your style of game, but it might come and bite you in the ass later.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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