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SW15

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I stopped doing dinner dates in restaurants prior to sex in the early 2010s. I am always surprised to hear those dates still happen. I felt like I was behimd the curve in doing that.

I have avoided coffee dates due to those being wastes of time too. Difficult to escalate to romance on those.

Drinks in bars were a common first date for me pre-pandemic. Better than dinner because I would sit side-by-side at the bar. However, I had too many "one date, no sex, no second date" type dates even from that, which led to wasted money.

Inviting a woman to work out as a first date is a good idea if you can handle the logistics, which can be complex. She's likely not a member at your gym, so getting a guest pass would have to be arranged. Some gyms are better about that than others.

Advenrures, or active dates, are good. A key challenge around those is that for people who work M-F 8:30 am-5:30 pm type jobs is that most of the adventures can only happen during the day. So that would limit you to day time dates on Saturday or Sunday. There are a few things that can be done on weeknights. It requires more creativity. Additionally, it would also require a longer conversation to happen. In most swipe app scenarios, that conversation level isn't going to happen over text. I would say to only do that with women met through some sort of in-person approaching when you can figure out if an adventure/active date would make sense based on mutual interests.
 

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Not hating on him at all, but I went through his instagram. He needs to show more women on them. Gotta flash the goods and the receipts.
 

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Not hating on him at all, but I went through his instagram. He needs to show more women on them. Gotta flash the goods and the receipts.
Definitely not, being on my Instagram for a woman is the height of my social value, you would be a fool to just give that away, that's the prize, I'm the prize, these hoes ain't nothing
 
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