Video: "I fell asleep"

[BPH]

Not to become another MatureDJ, but I think this would help some guys who are in the early stages of improving with women to understand what they're dealing with.

I made a post about the "secret" to getting really good at seducing women, which is to love women. I stand by that. However, that doesn't mean you should have rose-tinted lenses.

This guy definitely is more "black pill" than anything else, but if you still put women on pedestals, this might help you break that habit:

 

[Sega Genesis]

This guy definitely is more "black pill" than anything else...

I watched the entire video, wow. Not sure why I'm surprised after being a member here for a few years.

Question though... I assume when you say "this guy" you're referring to the narrator? What makes him "black pill" instead of "red pill"?

I get confused by all these colors and what they mean lol.

 

[BaronOfHair]

If she "fell asleep" she clearly doesn't find the fella fallen asleep on especially stimulating. To a degree, this gal has my sympathy... There's no shortage of folks out there(both genders)who meet this criteria


@Sega Genesis "I get confused by all these colors and what they mean"

You, and everyone else in our species, Segs... The incentives to stop hiding behind buzzwords and jargon, relearn the fine art of expressing our thoughts in layman's language, grows stronger with each passing day

 

[BPH]

I watched the entire video, wow. Not sure why I'm surprised after being a member here for a few years.

Question though... I assume when you say "this guy" you're referring to the narrator? What makes him "black pill" instead of "red pill"?

I get confused by all these colors and what they mean lol.

Red pill is the whole "high-value man" trend, where guys "see the light" so to speak, and decide to focus on themselves, while demanding traditional women with low body counts. The problem is, it's often a coping mechanism for failure by having a community vindicate you by calling women the problem, no matter what.

Black pill is red pill, but instead of trying to improve oneself, they're "doomers" and resign to the fact that dating as a whole is f***ed, and don't even try to change their circumstances - choosing instead to simply complain that the system is broken, and that there's no hope. I was referring to the narrator, yes. He is married, I don't know what either of them looks like, but his channel revolves around this style of video where he tosses up Call of Duty gameplay in the background and talks about how messed up modern dating is - but without any solutions beyond withdrawal.

If she "fell asleep" she clearly doesn't find the fella fallen asleep on especially stimulating. To a degree, this gal has my sympathy... There's no shortage of folks out there(both genders)who meet this criteria

Which gal? Have you watched the video? There are MULTIPLE gals.

One was sleeping with her boyfriend's cousin. Another said her man is everything she wants, but had a one-night stand and got d***ed down so hard she couldn't answer the door to accept the flowers that man had sent her.

To some extent, sure, their interest wasn't high enough to stay loyal, but most of these were committed relationships where I'm assuming they never communicated how they were feeling before straying.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Red pill is the whole "high-value man" trend, where guys "see the light" so to speak, and decide to focus on themselves, while demanding traditional women with low body counts. The problem is, it's often a coping mechanism for failure by having a community vindicate you by calling women the problem, no matter what.

Black pill is red pill, but instead of trying to improve oneself, they're "doomers" and resign to the fact that dating as a whole is f***ed, and don't even try to change their circumstances - choosing instead to simply complain that the system is broken, and that there's no hope. I was referring to the narrator, yes. He is married, I don't know what either of them looks like, but his channel revolves around this style of video where he tosses up Call of Duty gameplay in the background and talks about how messed up modern dating is - but without any solutions beyond withdrawal.



Which gal? Have you watched the video? There are MULTIPLE gals.

One was sleeping with her boyfriend's cousin. Another said her man is everything she wants, but had a one-night stand and got d***ed down so hard she couldn't answer the door to accept the flowers that man had sent her.

To some extent, sure, their interest wasn't high enough to stay loyal, but most of these were committed relationships where I'm assuming they never communicated how they were feeling before straying.

What kind of beliefs do you have?

 

[BPH]

What kind of beliefs do you have?

In what respect?

 

[darksprezzatura]

In what respect?

Social dynamics

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Fck is wrong with people?

If a girl shows low interest, find somebody else.

Don't waste the next eighteen years turning your experience into a master thesis about your newly found deep understanding of female nature.

 

[BPH]

Social dynamics

Believe people when they show you who they are. Judge a woman based on her actions and not just her words. Anything other than a "yes" is a sign that her interest isn't as high as you might hope. Those are the main points I'd say.

I don't subscribe to red pill or any of that, because I actually LIKE women. However, I have been done extremely dirty by women I cared very much about, and sometimes that's necessary for guys who believe their woman is special, and "not like the others".

 

[Sega Genesis]

Maybe I'm naive or just perceptive but a part of me doubts these tweets are even real.

I listened again and many have a similar tone - got d*cked up, my back blown out etc.

Same wording and very similar tone to many of them.

Could it be possible this Oloni person wrote them herself or tweaked them as a form of sensationalism? To attract attention and more followers?

I dunno it's the internet who the hell knows..

 

[BPH]

Maybe I'm naive or just perceptive but a part of me doubts these tweets are even real.

I listened again and many have a similar tone - got d*cked up, my back blown out etc.

Same wording and very similar tone to many of them.

Could it be possible this Oloni person wrote them herself or tweaked them as a form of sensationalism? To attract attention and more followers?

I dunno it's the internet who the hell knows..

Judging by the fact that the influencer is a black dating and sex therapist, I'd assume she probably has a majority black audience.

The culture and dialect are more blunt and even aggressive (like that last tweet), so that'd be my best guess. I don't think she made these up herself.

 

[BadBoy89]

I think the moral of the story is:

Use women for sex and don't try to connect with them.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Agree with the video.

Women are on their phones constantly. If they don't respond (and i mean to something that warrants a response), 9/10 times or 9/100 it means they saw your message and chose not to reply. That is not the sort of text a man ever be happy about receiving.

Lets be real, what would they really be doing to not reply for 12-16 hours? Women aren't getting immersed in hobbies, they ride ****.

Small things like this are not behaviors to ignore. And men know deep down they're not small things. If you notice it in your gut it means it's not small, and something is wrong.

Any stuff like this happens you should never pursue any kind of serious relationship with the woman.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@BPH "Red pill is the whole "high-value man" trend, where guys "see the light" so to speak, and decide to focus on themselves, while demanding traditional women with low body counts. The problem is, it's often a coping mechanism for failure by having a community vindicate you by calling women the problem, no matter what"

Worse yet: Consumers are conned into believing that An Incontrovertible Truth exists, and that there's a single pill out there we can take that makes us see it... We no longer have to interrogate our beliefs for their accuracy, and can ignore evidence indicating that life is a wee bit more complex than we'd prefer

In my perhaps less than humble estimation, the time has come for us to revive a time-honored observation https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_that_I_know_nothing

"Socrates, believing the oracle but also completely convinced that he knew nothing, was said to have concluded that nobody knew anything, and that he was only wiser than others because he was the only person who recognized his own ignorance"