"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Video: Guy Picks Up 20 Girls in 1 Hour at Bringham Young University
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
lol that was hilarious , and no there's no way he watched it he read title and mad an assumption.
That would be so much fun to do , especially that he explains it after when he gets them to sign the release lol
That would be so much fun to do , especially that he explains it after when he gets them to sign the release lol
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't know if this guy is really that clueless around women or its just a comedy act but I have to say that most of the women he approached showed some IOI's when he presented himself in the first 5 seconds (his foot was at the door before it was in his mouth).
If he knows game or can learn game, he would have scored a couple of dates.
If he knows game or can learn game, he would have scored a couple of dates.
DJDamage said:I don't know if this guy is really that clueless around women or its just a comedy act but I have to say that most of the women he approached showed some IOI's when he presented himself in the first 5 seconds (his foot was at the door before it was in his mouth).
If he knows game or can learn game, he would have scored a couple of dates.
He does it for comedic purposes. You can see him laughing as he is walking away from some of the women.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-WvvFQ_x9M
lmfao theres one at 1:32 where he actually gets a date with the girl !!!
you can see how shocked he is
lmfao theres one at 1:32 where he actually gets a date with the girl !!!
you can see how shocked he is
Eternal_water
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haha brilliant, the last girl looked like she wanted to go out with him and she was a definite yes.
and in picking up chicks 1 he actually gets a number.
I doubt this would work for an average looking guy though
and in picking up chicks 1 he actually gets a number.
I doubt this would work for an average looking guy though
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
This dude isnt all that hot either. I could not pull off sh!t like that at a local university and I am a decent looking guy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
defiantly puts things in perspective when you look at how well they respond to the dude even tho hes a bumbling bafoon half the time XD
the last blonde reacts like a guys never talked to her before in her life
the last blonde reacts like a guys never talked to her before in her life