"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Victor's Lifting and Diet journal

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I have started my monday-wednesday-friday routine today.

Done

Deadlifts 2 x 5 (90lbs) : I should add more weight

Chinup 2 x 3 + 1 x 2 : I was supposed to do 2 x 8 but I find chinups really hard, I even felt pain. Maybe our bar is too high.

Biceps Curls 2 x 8 (40lbs) : started with 70lbs but I couldn't lift it after the chinups

Abs 2 x 8 + 1 x 10 : find it easier than what I do in my room. I should add weight.

Didn't prepare anything for PWO eating, I will just take a bowl of oats.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nvictor said:
Didn't prepare anything for PWO eating, I will just take a bowl of oats.

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You are not helping yourself with that attitude
 

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Warboss Alex said:
You are not helping yourself with that attitude
Actually the total protein intake was 22 (12 for the oatmeal and 10 for raw ham without bread) and I have taken a apple. Now I'm going to cook a meal
 

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every gram of that protein is irrelevant postworkout.

oatmeal is a beautiful food, but only for the complex carbs, which slow digestion.

the leanest ham is still full of fat.

do a search on postworkout or "pwo" nutrition. short version? you need as quick a hit of fast carbs & fast protein as you can afford. oatmeal is slow carbs, ham is slow protein, and the combination is brutal, making the actual protein content of either irrelevant.
 

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Tomorrow is WO day, I still have no idea of a good PWO meal, help me.

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my intentions
1. My muscles are growing through my workouts and my proper eating.

2. I'm getting all the help I want from Sosuave.net health's forum
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomorrow is WO day, I still have no idea of a good PWO meal, help me.

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my intentions
1. My muscles are growing through my workouts and my proper eating.

2. I'm getting all the help I want from Sosuave.net health's forum
 

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nvictor said:
Tomorrow is WO day, I still have no idea of a good PWO meal, help me.

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1. My muscles are growing through my workouts and my proper eating.

2. I'm getting all the help I want from Sosuave.net health's forum
do you have protein powder? if so take that, 2 scoops and an apple or oatmeal.

otherwise some eggs and oats.
 

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thanks Alex, I have eggs and oats.

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1. My nuscles are growing bigger through proper eating and exercice

2. I'm getting all the help I need from Sosuave.net health's forum
 

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Depending how much protein your whey powder packs in per scoop, you can probably take more than that. EFFORT has me drinking well over 50g of protein PWO. I eat an apple or a banana with my shake as well.

Then later on keep eating as you normally would to grow.

-shaun
 

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Report of today's workout

Squats 2x5 (90 lbs)
When you use the tip of your feet to get up, does it means that you are not correctly doing squats?

Leg press 1x15 (90 lbs)
*add weight

Stiff leg deadlift 1x10 1x6 1x4 (110 lbs)

Glute ham raise : :( didn't found the machine illustrated on Exrx.net web page, so I didn't do it. Anything that can replace it?

Calf Raise 1x10 (90 lbs) 1x10 (110 lbs)

No abs today, because I've forgotten to set the time to spring hour :D

PWO meal
Eggs + Oatsmeal.

my intentions
My muscles are growing bigger through proper eating and exercice
I'm getting all the help I need on Sosuave.net health's forum
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey bud, looking good, keeping getting that squat up :up:

Nah, don't go on your tip toes. Get on ironaddicts.com to read a bit more about proper form. Also, consider going with box squats for a while to help you learn form, and to get confident with squatting. I've had trouble with the psychological aspects of squatting and consequently a few problems with my form, so I'm doing box squats for my Max Effort squat on my westside barbell-type routine. They're helping a lot, they're awesome ;)

Also, a bit of advice,
Stiff leg deadlift 1x10 1x6 1x4 (110 lbs)
Do higher reps on your stiff-leg deadlifts. Do 2/3x10-15. :)

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Do higher reps on your stiff-leg deadlifts. Do 2/3x10-15. :)

-shaun
I'll. ;)

my intentions
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I'm getting all the help I need on Sosuave.net health's forum
 

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03/14/07 Report

Incline Press: 1x6 (90lbs) 2x6 (100lbs)
Dips: didn't find an appropriate machine
Shoulder Press: 1x10 (30lbs) 1x8 (30lbs)
Triceps extension: 2x8 (86lbs)
Abs: 2x10

notes
I didn't find an appropriate machine for dips. Also, Warboss, when you said dips in your sample routine you didn't specify any. I've found many in Exrx.net but there were no machine that was appropriate (well, if there was, I didn't it)

PWO meal
3 eggs + white bread.

I am
- getting strong muscles through proper eating and exercice
- all the help I need from Sosuave.net health's forum
 

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3/16/07 Report

Deadlifts: 1x5 (90lbs) 1x5 (140lbs) 1x5 (150lbs)
Chinups: 2x4, 1x2
Biceps Curls: 1x5 (48lbs) 1x3 (60lbs) 1x1.5 (60lbs)
Dips [found a machine :D for chest+triceps]: 2x5
Abs: 3x10

PWO meal
4 eggs/ 3 slices of white bread
PPWO meal soon: iced lipton lemon tea, a small bottle

Notes
I still find chinups difficult; maybe I don't do them right.
I'm looking for abs exercises that target the obliques and the transversal abdominis [if it's a muscle; I've gathered these names because all abs exercises I know only target rectus abdominis]

I also need a precision. Does the formula short and intense reps also work for abs exercices?
If yes? how shoud I intensify my abs exercices?

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I have strong muscles because of my proper eating, exercise and you all
I also suggest you to make some extra money with the 7 dollar method and Agloco.
 

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add weight.. carry a dumb bell or a plate on your chest when you're doing decline crunches if they become too easy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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simba_ said:
add weight.. carry a dumb bell or a plate on your chest when you're doing decline crunches if they become too easy.
good suggestion.

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Agloco and the 7 dollar theory help you make some extra money
 
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