"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Victoria's Secret Models

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Hi everyone,

Whenever I watch Victoria's secret, I get this motivation to become a man that these beautiful angels would fall for. Its a long way to self improvement. I know where to start but I don't know what to aim at. I know I should strive to become the best man I can be but 'best' is vague and does not give you a concrete goal to aim for. I have this constant urge to get out of mediocrity and that's why I am really competitive at anything I do. I want to be the best. I want to rule. I have limitations and I want to become aware of them and consequently work at them. I hope you guys understand what I am getting at.

I'm still really young, 20, and these ambitions of mine are not childish. I can never live thinking I am average. Even at university, when I have an average gpa, it really bugs me. I still have a life to figure out and I am not denying that there are alot of things I'm unaware of, but I want to assure you that these hopes and dreams are not just due to a disney mindset. I am in love with reality and its unfairness, it's weird but I really find it fascinating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm still really young, 20, and these ambitions of mine are not childish. I can never live thinking I am average. Even at university, when I have an average gpa, it really bugs me.
I think this is all part of nature at work. Women are driven to be with the best men, elite men (hypergamy). So men are driven to be the best they can be, they want to become elite. The idea of being average disturbs them. They want to be elite so they can attract females, like birds need to have the best mating dances to attract females. I mean, that's not the only reason they are driven to succeed, but that's part of it.

Look at all the guys on this forum who delude themselves into thinking they are "alphas" - and how every guy they are competing with are dismissed as AFCs or betas. It's all part of the male drive to be elite, nobody wants to think they're just average. Especially in the 20s when testosterone is high, guys are driven to self improvement.
 

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i agree with the above

but I'm sorry nobody on this forum will be banging VS models unless you have some kind of incredible luck in life

you ever seen the show entourage ? , that is the type of lifestyle you would need to attain to allow yourself a shot at banging VS models

just a small reality check but there are still plenty of girls out there who look good in the underwear ,

i promise
 

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I'm sorry but i don't find Victoria's secret models attractive enough to bang them. They might have beautifull face,eyes ,hair but they are too skinny for my preferences.
If they were 5-8 kgs more they would be better imo.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm sorry but i don't find Victoria's secret models attractive enough to bang them. They might have beautifull face,eyes ,hair but they are too skinny for my preferences.
If they were 5-8 kgs more they would be better imo.
Candice is pretty hot
 

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Thanks! That was a really good reply. I didn't mean to pedestalize them. I know for a fact that most hb >8 aren't that interesting.
 

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Thanks! That was a really good reply. I didn't mean to pedestalize them. I know for a fact that most hb >8 aren't that interesting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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