"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scaramouche

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Ger Dayee Zunder,
Surprise Surprise,you are actually right...I never realised that Captain Cook bought our furry friends to the Shaky Islands in 1773...But Mate we have so many Kiwi Sheilahs over here,and in general they are very nice girls..sadly we do get a lot of trailer trash who come here to have their Bvastard children and take advantage of the incredible child support we have here....But lest I convey the impression that I have a poor impression of you Sheep Shaggers,my Dad went to Crete with the Kiwis in 1941...Rommels opinion was that they were the finest Soldiers he ever faced...Good news is that there are 12 sheep to every Kiwi...They get on your nerves,well they will go rather nicely with some roast veggies and a touch of mint sauce on a Sunday Lunchtime.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SteR said:
Just out of curiosity, what's your libido like at 67? What sorta age do you (if at all) notice any major changes?
If I may jump in on your question, I will tell you what it's like in your 40s (compared to you). In my 20s, I often had to "fill in the gaps". Even if I was getting sex, and I usually was, I was typically so horny that I'd also have to masturbate from time to time sometimes just because I was too impatient to do the work required to get the real thing again. Now at 40, I'm usually good with sex 2-3 times a week, and can take or leave anything else. I am capable of more often than that, of course, but I just don't really want to.

Having a somewhat lower sex drive is actually nice, if you ask me. My mind is not constantly consumed with thoughts of getting some like it used to be. I can think clearer!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Hello SteR,
My Libido,interestingly enough it is really excellent,I generally bang someone daily sometimes get a bit of morning glory....svex is actually better for me now than at 19....strength is also not bad,at 19 I could clean and jerk 190 lbs,the other day I did 120 lbs...energy,that's another story,probably less than 40% of what it was at 35...I sleep a lot these days...I think I peaked in most things at about 37...at about 47 I was asking myself if I was losing it,five years later I knew I was.
azanon said:
If I may jump in on your question, I will tell you what it's like in your 40s (compared to you). In my 20s, I often had to "fill in the gaps". Even if I was getting sex, and I usually was, I was typically so horny that I'd also have to masturbate from time to time sometimes just because I was too impatient to do the work required to get the real thing again. Now at 40, I'm usually good with sex 2-3 times a week, and can take or leave anything else. I am capable of more often than that, of course, but I just don't really want to.

Having a somewhat lower sex drive is actually nice, if you ask me. My mind is not constantly consumed with thoughts of getting some like it used to be. I can think clearer!
That's actually pretty good to hear! For some reason I'm fearful that at 30 everything'll just fall to bits and I'll find it difficult to stay in shape/maintain libido etc.. looks like I've got a while yet :)
 

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azanon said:
Now at 40, I'm usually good with sex 2-3 times a week, and can take or leave anything else. I am capable of more often than that, of course, but I just don't really want to.

Having a somewhat lower sex drive is actually nice, if you ask me. My mind is not constantly consumed with thoughts of getting some like it used to be. I can think clearer!
I think as you get older you go through phases, particularly dependant on your relationship status. When I was nearing the end of my marriage, I was over 50 and my libido was running on fumes. I assumed it was age and like the poster I actually told myself that it was a good thing.

As soon as I moved out, the libido returned to the level of my 30s. I'm 58 and still want it as often as I can get it - daily is my preference.
 

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davewe said:
I think as you get older you go through phases, particularly dependant on your relationship status. When I was nearing the end of my marriage, I was over 50 and my libido was running on fumes. I assumed it was age and like the poster I actually told myself that it was a good thing.

As soon as I moved out, the libido returned to the level of my 30s. I'm 58 and still want it as often as I can get it - daily is my preference.
Assumption is not really something I engage in as a devout scientist. That libido drops from 18 onward in male humans is not even a matter of debate. I was merely describing my personal experience of this known phenemenon.

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce, but my wife is still hot and I very much desire her. I also work out pretty heavily so my engine is fine tuned.

My personal record was 7 consecutive times with 5 minutes max in-between time - same chick. I was 19 at the time. Ahh, those were the days. Could I do that today? eehhh, maybe if I really tried hard. But gosh, that would be exhausting!

If you want to imply to this young fellow his libido will not change up to 58 yrs old, who am I to stop you. Just hope he doesn't actually research it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zarky said:
I use it on occasion, mostly for my own entertainment. It doesn't make you horny but it makes you able to get and stay hard even at lower levels of horniness, if that makes sense. With a super hot chick I don't use it, but if I'm banging some 40something single mom with a condom then I'll pop one and I'll be just as hard for just as long as if I were with the super hot chick.

A friend of mine once said that screwing a hot 16 y.o. was like "natural viagra".
 

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Atom Smasher said:
But does it make you horny or just physically (mechanically) capable?

Also, do I have to be careful about Rebar?
It opens up the blood vessels.
That's how it works.
I've tried it a couple times and one of the side effects for me was I looked like I just smoked high quality weed.

An analogy would be, it's Dristan for the d1ck.

SH
 

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azanon said:
Assumption is not really something I engage in as a devout scientist. That libido drops from 18 onward in male humans is not even a matter of debate. I was merely describing my personal experience of this known phenemenon.

I'm sorry to hear about your divorce, but my wife is still hot and I very much desire her. I also work out pretty heavily so my engine is fine tuned.

My personal record was 7 consecutive times with 5 minutes max in-between time - same chick. I was 19 at the time. Ahh, those were the days. Could I do that today? eehhh, maybe if I really tried hard. But gosh, that would be exhausting!

If you want to imply to this young fellow his libido will not change up to 58 yrs old, who am I to stop you. Just hope he doesn't actually research it.
I did not say it was at the levels of when I was 18 but it is comparable to the levels of 20 years ago. Naturally YMMV. But my original point was that there are many factors involved, and that like many things in life it can ebb and flow.

Its not uncommon for guys of many ages to report a decreased libido, assume it is just "old age" when in fact it may be depression, life changes, health, exercise, etc. Stats are great yardage sticks but dont always equal the individual.
 

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I started taking propecia for my hairline and THAT did crazy things for my libido. It was like a rollercoaster and after about 5 years still sort of is. Finasteride does interesting things to testosterone. For 1-2 months I'd be super horny, then for 2-3 months I would be totally uninterested, repeat. Very strange.
 

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Ive never tried it but i did try something called Arginmax from GNC. When i first met my ex gf i started taking that however at double the dose before i went to her house lol boy did i bang the F***k out of her, after i bent her over and drilled like a champ, she threw herself on the bed shivering lol but then i wanted sex again. i was poundering her out say 5 times a night. ahhh Relationships are great at the start arent they..... Now that im single... time to re stock.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've been experimenting with Viagra substitutes from India (Filagra) with my current FB (she hasn't got a clue).

Some face flushing with a whole 100mg tab, and some inter-cranial pressure (short of what I would describe as an actual headache), but otherwise no side effects I need to take anything for.

Alcohol taken before you take the pill will really slow down this stuff and it takes a lot longer to come on, in my experience.

Once working though, I haven't barred up like that since my 30's. It doesn't hurt, feels natural, libido is at your control not the pill's. One tab lasts for about 6 hours worth of action (with breaks of course!).

I have some generic Cialis too, but will wait until I need 8 hours+ of constant performance before downing one of those (very strong).
 
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