"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Viagra to help me keep it up when practicing with putting on a condom

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I think taking viagra before I masturbate may be a good idea as it will help me keep up the erection.

I am currently practicing putting on condoms and it is taking some getting used to.

I am a virgin and practicing masturbating with a condom on to the point of ejaculation in order to be ready for the real thing.

Would viagra be a good idea for helping me?

Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dont get used to it, use it only once or twice if you think you will be nervous or loose your erection when putting condom on. I used it only once just to try it, it was dose of 15 mg and i didnt feel nothing. Had normal erection like always so i dont think smaller dose work on me, maybe because of my constitution.
 

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How much practice do you need to put on a condom? It seems you're overthinking this.

I never practiced that, it's not rocket science to roll a piece of latex over your d!ck?!
 

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I think taking viagra before I masturbate may be a good idea as it will help me keep up the erection.

I am currently practicing putting on condoms and it is taking some getting used to.

I am a virgin and practicing masturbating with a condom on to the point of ejaculation in order to be ready for the real thing.

Would viagra be a good idea for helping me?

Thanks!
No. Viagra would cause dependance. You will be better served by refraining from masterbation and let a babe give you oral until you are ready for sex.
 

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I think taking viagra before I masturbate may be a good idea as it will help me keep up the erection.

I am currently practicing putting on condoms and it is taking some getting used to.

I am a virgin and practicing masturbating with a condom on to the point of ejaculation in order to be ready for the real thing.

Would viagra be a good idea for helping me?

Thanks!
Prob. unwise to f uck around with any of the boner enacing drugs when you do not need it. Often times, dudes come in to the ER and their erection will not retreat. We then have to assist by inserting a needle into the dudes penis to remove the blood so the penis can become flaccid again. It's quite painful I am told, so best not to have to take the boner pills if you do not need it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't take viagra unless you have a real issue with erections. It's always best to avoid messing with medication unless you need it.

And don't get pissed at yourself if you don't get a boner when you're having sex. You'll be nervous the first time - who gives a fvck? After a few times it won't stress you out and you'll plow in like Thor.

More importantly, if you're not getting an erection, don't apologize about it.
 

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I think taking viagra before I masturbate may be a good idea as it will help me keep up the erection.

I am currently practicing putting on condoms and it is taking some getting used to.

I am a virgin and practicing masturbating with a condom on to the point of ejaculation in order to be ready for the real thing.

Would viagra be a good idea for helping me?

Thanks!
So. You can’t keep a boner up to put on a condom? Might be time to talk to your MD. Not being snarky.
 

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Just a quick thought... I agree that if you’re having a difficult time keeping it up, then there’s likely a performance or anticipatory anxiety going on. You’re imagining not being able to get it up with a girl and then that’s getting into your head. As it was said, if you can’t get it up, don’t apologize. It’s on her to stimulate you.
 

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Just a quick thought... I agree that if you’re having a difficult time keeping it up, then there’s likely a performance or anticipatory anxiety going on. You’re imagining not being able to get it up with a girl and then that’s getting into your head. As it was said, if you can’t get it up, don’t apologize. It’s on her to stimulate you.
Ask for head up front
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bail on the viagra.

When it comes to putting on a condom, have them in arms reach, so it's a quick transition to grab the thing and slip it on. If it’s not, tell the girl to keep stroking you to keep you in the emotional mood while you dig it out of a drawer or pants pocket.

Condoms are mood killers with new women, because it adds a break to an already semi-awkward situation with getting to know a new persons body.
I found what works is just commanding the space while that transition comes in to play. Telling her exactly what YOU need to keep the mood intact and not let it fall away.

So a lot of the condom stuff is just quick logistics which will immediately make you think. The best way for this is just to know where things are, you don’t slip yourself out of the mood looking around for the damn thing.

and when you do get to the point of sex for the first time; just be honest to the woman about it. It will probably alleviate your stress and anxiety about all of this. You’re not supposed to be a pro if you haven’t even been in the game yet.
With sex it’s all about relaxing and letting go of the thinking mind and immersing yourself in to your primal, emotional body.
 
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