"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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veteran needs help please fast before tomorrow morning

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i met this girl online in a game

known her for about 2 months but finally started talking with her

we get along good online so well that she wants me to visit her

so i decided to go tomorrow morning cuz i got some time



the thing is she gonna see me after her jc class, and she cant tell her parents about me so we never going back to her house

i already made a backup plan and told my friends to call me an hour into the meeting.


anything i should know or have for this special meeting?

cuz i dont knwo what the f*** we gonna do cuz i dont know that area

she has a new scion TC so we can drive around, but not much to do besides go out to eat

PLEASE GIVE ME SOME IDEAS FOR THIS LIMITED IN CAR DATE cuz it will be hard for me to make up date ideas in a place i dont know. should i leave that on her????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you're visiting her...tell her that she should be your tour guide
 
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