"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Very Shy Girls

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Hi, long time reader, first time poster

What is the best way to get very shy girls?

Now I'm a good looking guy, I tend to get attractive girls chat me up/usually have no trouble getting the numbers etc, but this shy girl threw me last night

Basically a week ago I met a HB 9 and a cute petite 8 in the local club

The cute petite 8 is my target

Seeing the HB 9 as the leader of the pack and ****blocking other men from the cute 8, I work my magic on the HB 9 to deactivate her ***** shield

Turns out she is a singer, and with me being a producer, we had good convo and got on very well

I then turned my attention to cute 8 but she's SO shy!

I started by playing it 'soft', not being too forward, joking around etc, and I got laughs out of her and (finally) eye contact. I threw in some light kino too, which she responded well too

I noticed though: She seemed to be like a 'pet' to the HB 9, seeking approval for everything and always following and never leading

I could tell she probably had low self esteem

I got the HB 9's number for business reasons only (music) and talked to her about my interest in the cute 8 over the week

She's really up for me getting with her

The three of us meet up in the same club last night - the cute 8, even though she was quite drunk, was back in her shell again and the soft approch was not working too well

The HB 9 just said ask for her number as they had to go home, so I switch to dominate male mode and said: "****, you're single aren't you, give me you're number and we'll link up sometime" *Smile*

She's looking at the ground going "um um why?" so I say "Because I want it"

She replies "not know... maybe next time..." and then they both leave

Then a minute later I get a text message from HB 9 just with cute 8's number...

This is where I am up to now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hate situations like this. The girl could be "interested" and shy or "uninterested" and shy, and you're either making her uncomfortable because she isn't into you or she's making you work overtime just to get her to open up. Sounds like too much work to me, she wasn't even loosend up by the alcohol? That sucks...
 
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Originally posted by Tazman
I hate situations like this. The girl could be "interested" and shy or "uninterested" and shy, and you're either making her uncomfortable because she isn't into you or she's making you work overtime just to get her to open up. Sounds like too much work to me, she wasn't even loosend up by the alcohol? That sucks...
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Indeed it does.... shy girls are too hard to read for me

Ironic that lively HB 9's I have NO problem with, but the shy girls I have trouble with

I don't know if to go for the 'soft fluffy approach' or full on 'take control of the situation approach'
 
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No, she's not into you, move along, NEXT. Don't space your posts like that frivolouse21 guy. This is an order of the elite SS squad.
 
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dont next her, keep trying. but pursue other girls in case she flakes out.

shy girls are a lot of work, i know from experience. but they are also very rewarding when they open up to you.

ps: shy girls are more likely to be virgins, and they require more work to get in their pants. FYI. If you're after quick sex, move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by isotope
dont next her, keep trying. but pursue other girls in case she flakes out.

shy girls are a lot of work, i know from experience. but they are also very rewarding when they open up to you.

ps: shy girls are more likely to be virgins, and they require more work to get in their pants. FYI. If you're after quick sex, move on.
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Yeah I had a strong feeling she is a virgin

I don't mind working for the sex as she seems a respectful girl with a good head on her shoulders

I think I'll talk to her 'master' the HB 9 girl some more, as she really wants me to get with this girl
 
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Originally posted by Jam
Hi, long time reader, first time poster

What is the best way to get very shy girls?

Now I'm a good looking guy, I tend to get attractive girls chat me up/usually have no trouble getting the numbers etc, but this shy girl threw me last night

Basically a week ago I met a HB 9 and a cute petite 8 in the local club

The cute petite 8 is my target

Seeing the HB 9 as the leader of the pack and ****blocking other men from the cute 8, I work my magic on the HB 9 to deactivate her ***** shield

Turns out she is a singer, and with me being a producer, we had good convo and got on very well

I then turned my attention to cute 8 but she's SO shy!

I started by playing it 'soft', not being too forward, joking around etc, and I got laughs out of her and (finally) eye contact. I threw in some light kino too, which she responded well too

I noticed though: She seemed to be like a 'pet' to the HB 9, seeking approval for everything and always following and never leading

I could tell she probably had low self esteem

I got the HB 9's number for business reasons only (music) and talked to her about my interest in the cute 8 over the week

She's really up for me getting with her

The three of us meet up in the same club last night - the cute 8, even though she was quite drunk, was back in her shell again and the soft approch was not working too well

The HB 9 just said ask for her number as they had to go home, so I switch to dominate male mode and said: "****, you're single aren't you, give me you're number and we'll link up sometime" *Smile*

She's looking at the ground going "um um why?" so I say "Because I want it"

She replies "not know... maybe next time..." and then they both leave

Then a minute later I get a text message from HB 9 just with cute 8's number...

This is where I am up to now
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Didnt read your post---BUT!- this I did get form your title--VERY SHY GIRLS----I.E. Waiting for some real man to show them the way--so why dont you show them and stop posting this nonsense and let us help the people that need help-Got it? Good! Awesome!


"Turn fear Into Curiosity"
 
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Originally posted by isotope
dont next her, keep trying. but pursue other girls in case she flakes out.

shy girls are a lot of work, i know from experience. but they are also very rewarding when they open up to you.

ps: shy girls are more likely to be virgins, and they require more work to get in their pants. FYI. If you're after quick sex, move on.
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Where is the proof of burden that shy girls are more likely to be virgins, and are you saying they're better than non-virgins in a moral sense? Your AFCness is bleeding profusely with your assumptions.

And Jam the buttboy is eating it up.
 
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