Ok, I am a senior in high school, and there is this girl that I want to start talking to and all that jazz. She's a junior, mixed, and EXTREMELY shy from what ive observed/heard. She's in a class that I T.A. for, and she NEVER talks. She has a great smile, but hardly ever talks. In fact, I am surprised when she does. She has a deeper tone of voice, but I find that sexy really. Her and I have never spoken before, but I swear she's been looking at me sometimes during class, and we've made eye contact before. How would I go about approaching her and start on the path to a relationship? (corny right? lol)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Very shy girl
- Thread starter Dfresh
- Start date