"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VERY short sleeve shirts?

Lost

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Does anyone know where i can get T-shirts ( or Polo) that have VERY short sleeve. Like the ones that just go past the shoulder and show off your arms?

Im not talking about sleeveless or wifebeaters. I mean they have sleeves but they are VERY short.

Also where can i find SMALLER fvckin clothes? Im 5'5 So everything is too long.. and usually baggy too... but mainly just too long. I can get bigger but i cant get taller. Im already 19 y/o.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hope you're not talking about those girl's shirts that have the supertiny little sleeve that just covers 1/2 of their shoulder!

Those are the faggiest shirts ever if worn by a guy.

I have pretty big arms and I like to wear tshirts, but I usually try to have at least 1/2 of my bicep covered. That leaves enough bicep sticking out to be seen, but not so much that it looks gay/obnoxious.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
Also where can i find SMALLER fvckin clothes? Im 5'5 So everything is too long.. and usually baggy too... but mainly just too long. I can get bigger but i cant get taller. Im already 19 y/o.
Get your grandma to hem the long shirts up an inch or two.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why not just wear shirts with normal sleeves? Ive never had big arms, until recently, and I still dont feel the need to show them off. Just be you


If anything, wear regular shirts with no sleeves. I dont care how much pvssy some guys think theyre getting, wearing extra small shirts, especially ones with feminine colors like pink, purple or aqua. They just look really gay and are screamin out "I need attention/an ass whoopin"


Im not one to criticize others at all, but this is someting that does irk me. I have a friend who has this clothing "style" and I always get on him about it. He pulls females but the faggy shirts arent necessary, hed be alright without them as would you
 

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Originally posted by incognito42
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Im not one to criticize others at all, but this is someting that does irk me. I have a friend who has this clothing "style" and I always get on him about it. He pulls females but the faggy shirts arent necessary, hed be alright without them as would you [/B]

don't mean to insult, but i think that costantly critizing other MALES about their clothes is far more gayish than wearing short-sleeves... just my opinion
 

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i dont think he means 'short-sleeved' shirts as the ones chicks wear, you know with small cuffs at the elbow. It think (hope!) that he just means regular short sleeved ala
http://www.draytonmalls.com/images/253FossilShirtsCharlie.gif

you should be able to find them at any men's clothing store. And whatever you do, please do not try to show off your arms unless you are 200+lbs and got some nice guns. You will just end up as a laughing stock.
 

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Originally posted by Centaurion

And whatever you do, please do not try to show off your arms unless you are 200+lbs and got some nice guns. You will just end up as a laughing stock.
i don't know man, I weigh just about 145 lbs (i'm 5'9), but people keep telling me my arms are really big for my height and when I wear a tank top, every girl turns her head to watch. So, I don't think you need to weigh like that to have nice arms to show off
 

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must be that the auswitch look is 'in' nowadays.

:p

heh yeah, I also usually turn my head to watch when a skinny kid with the lat-syndrome in a tight shirt walks by. That's merely because it's so friggin funny.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Lost
No, I mean they should complete cover the shoulder.. but not go much or at all past that

btw, can you get this big without steroids? http://www.xtrememass.com/forum/member.php?u=3699
"You are not logged in. Please register or log in to see this thread." :rolleyes:

If I know the pic you are talking about, it might just take years of lifting and proper rest and nutrition. Oh, and genetics.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
ok, how about this big: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/jon24u.jpg

I need to find an ideal body to shoot for, know where i can find some good pics? Im thinking that one above is pretty sweet
Well, it looks like that guy probably juices.

Short answer to your question: Yes, it MIGHT be possible to get like that naturally, but you'd have to have 1 in 10000 genetics.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sooo anyone know?

maybe ill just look at a picture of some pro thats huge and use that as motivation while eating.
I know i wont get that big ( and dont want to) .. but its like, it gives you momentum.

Like that saying in martial arts... you aim past the board, not just to it (to break it)
 

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You guys who are criticizing are a bunch of a$$eholes. The guy asked for advice on where to get a type of shirt from, not you're opinion on the shirts. If you know the answer to his question but prefer to act like a **** then don't respond at all. Who cares if someone wants to wear small fitting shirts. I wear small fitting shirts, and not because I want to show off-I'm skinny and more cut than buff-but because I find them more comfortable than those big ass white tees that would make me look like the fourth addition to alvin and the chimpmunks. Lastly, I don't think he's talking about shirts that cover an inch of your shoulders. Shirts like that are solely made for girls. And why would anyone want to dress like a girl?
 
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