Very self-confident girl

[psychgrad]

Hey guys I have a small problem. There is this girl that I knew from last semester, I try to use a lot of the Dj stuff on her like not calling everyday, having her jump through some of my hoops, etc. But it does not seem to work. I know you guys are thinking she is not interested. but when she finally asked me to go to dinner it seemed like we clicked( i busted her ass all night, playful) and when we talk on the phone she always seems like she wants to continue the conversation. So, my only logical plan is to act a little more AFC like calling maybe more than usual; basically showing obvious signs of interest in my part. I always thought "keep doing what your doing and you will get the same thing over and over" (something like that- mystery)

This girl is very confident; does not care what others think of her. Just seems like a female DJ.

I do not want to get the LJBF.

Any ideas or advice guys? thanks

 

[Prof]

A.) Do what works and never change from what does work. Damnit, I did that exact thing with this one chic from my college (she was very confident, too), and she wound up with my friend. Don't let that be you!

B.) If you haven't asked her out yet, damnit, what are you waiting for? Assume a positive until a very negative! (Don't rape her, but don't be sitting there waiting for her to do ANYTHING. That's equivalent to stepping out of the way for another guy to walk in and bang that a$$.)

 

[shiningshadow]

What the hell kind of plan is that? Acting like a chump has never gotten the girl, it won't work now. Make a move.

 

[The_Lifter]

Remember to always escalate things to the next level. If she goes quiet, tell her, you know, your silence is telling me more than your words ever could. If she asks what you mean, reel off some bs about how she's might try to portray herself as a confident broad but behind that harsh exterior is a shy girl who's afraid to truly express herself for fear of rejection. She'll open up, you'll score.

 

[MinDFreeZ]

I like to use the lines I read somewhere.. probably over on MM forums or something.. "Are you adventurous?" .. then invite them to do something, make sure you do something fun.. or what was the point of the question?
So force her to be more outgoing than she is, be MORE confident then her... then tell her you had fun --and try to escelate kino all night.

---- be LOUD, outgoing.. talk to random people (about meaningful things.. like ask a question like you need an answer, even if you know the answer).. do this in front of her... maybe even talk to other girls... make sure you dont make a fool out of yourself doing it though.
-oh yea, and include her on those conversations.

 

[LiveStrong]

dont revert to AFCism........
wont work..
call her and leave a message if she doesnt answer
when you call invite her on an action date
get some kino in on the date
before dropping her off/departure....look into her eyes and ask her if she'd like to kiss you..
YOU: would you like to kiss me?
Herno response)
YOU: lets find out...(move in about 90 percent of the way let her move in the other 10%) gently kiss.....dont rush your kiss make it gentle...you don't want to seem too eager to kiss her
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If she says no....
YOU: (shrug) just seemed like you had something on your mind

basically that is one of my favorite kiss-close techniques....i believe its one of Styles..

You need to isolate this girl and make a move...im guessing from what you have written that you haven't made a physical connection with her yet...YOU MUST!!!...otherwise she will see you as either not interested..or weak and lacking in manhood

-Respect

 

[trd323]

Its not like I am going to be a complete AFC. I have escalated KINO. I even did a half assed evolution phase shift but just went to smell her and had her Bite my neck (i did not continue because we were in class) then I told her that your turning me on too much and I cant talk to you(turned back) she responded well. Then I thought i got her and she would initiate more but that did not happen. So I called her after a week and she said in a saracastic tone "Oh where have you been". things like this, I cant help but think that she knows the game or is a natural.

thanks for the advice guys

 

[LiveStrong]

lol sounds to me like you are in the money my boy...i dont think she knows the game at all.....in fact she likes you a lot only she doesn't want to reveal her feelings about you too soon.
Her saying "where have you been.." tells me she's frustrated with you...your game is getting to her. Just keep playing by the rules and you'll have this one eating out of the palm of your hand...
I was in a situation like this where the girl was soo confused that I had to simply take two more steps forward.

I called her and invted her to play tennis with me...she already had plans and told me she'd call me when finished...she calls i answer and simply say..:hey, im coming over.."....she wasnt sure if i was serious or joking so i have her give me directions to her house and when i get there she acts shocked that i actually showed up. I grab her hand and go on a walk with her...sit down on a bench and start making out..

Sorry i got off track...but im quite sure that just wrangled yourself a stallion...now all you have to do is tame her