hm..
I found this in a forum ....written by a lady giving advice.
"I respond to this the same way I would respond to my sisters, whom I love and put their interests first. It may hurt at first, but make sense later. He's gone out with you twice. That's enough for him to know if he wants to see you again. When you called him, he came to "see you quickly", said he'd take you out, but never called back. Men who really like a woman will pursue her. He said he "likes" you. Like" is a very vague term.
That is not saying he is interested in dating you. Look at his actions. You had to "find him" once, and now you are wondering if you should call. N-O. You describe this as a "relationship", but it isn't. You went out twice. That is not a relationship. It is a friendship, where neither owes the other anything....not another date, or a call. However, common decency and courtesy says what he SHOULD do if he is not interested is to somehow convey that in a nice way, rather than avoiding you. I would not call him. Men are supposed to pursue us.
When they don't, it means either they are not as interested as we thought, or they are involved with someone else and do not want to tell you that. He does not want to hurt your feelings. If you give in and call him, trust me, you will feel horrible afterward, and yes, he will think you are desperate for his company. You will regret it. If he is interested, he will call you. (I'm talking from experience, of course I learned the hard way, that is how I know)!!
Keep your options open and resist calling him.
Be the "babe" you probably are, and you'll surely catch someone else's eye.
Someone who will keep his word." (End)
VERY intresting to me. your thoughts?
