BongDuy said:
how do you guys deal with girls who are very physical? as in, they smack you playfully, punch you to prove they're not girly, and maybe the occasional titty twister?
Well this obviously isn't some girl you've just recently met through an approach.
No girl who's a stranger you've just walked up to is going to let you pull a "titty twister" on her,lol :crackup:.
This is a someone you've known for a while. So if things have gotten to the point of her playfully smacking you and TRYING TO PROVE she's
NOT girly,then more than likely,it's ALREADY over with....and has been for some time.
This is all 100% comfort coming from her,absolutely NO ATTRACTION at all.
BongDuy said:
I always playfully smack their leg and if they squeeze my nipple, i playfully reply " if you can touch mine, i can touch yours." and if they do it again, I return the favor and get a handful. Is this a good idea for a girl you are trying to game?
NO.
The thing is,by you repeatedly doing this with a girl,you ALREADY have a relationship with her,and that relationship is one of playing and joking around,physical humor.
It's all playfulness,there's nothing serious there.
There's no emotions involved,no chance of getting rejected or hurt.
Well if there's no emotion involved,if there's no chance of getting rejected,then it's NOT A (DATING) RELATIONSHIP.
This is basically the friendzone.
All the playing around,the hitting,and "titty twisters" mean nothing because they don't require anything from her.
Asking her out on a date means she now has the power to reject/hurt you.
It means you're asking for her heart,her faithfulness,and her body to be yours,and yours ALONE.
And that's a BIG deal. Hitting her or twisting her tit then walking off means nothing.
It may be a good way to cop a feel from time to time,but as far as anything meaningful,I wouldn't get my hopes up.
