Very interesting topic to discuss

[skip2mylou781]

First the question, then a few examples to expand on it:

QUESTION:

How does one tell if a girl is interested in being serious or if shes interested in just a quick fling?? I ask this because a few times, ive had girls act like they are interested in a relationship (very sweet, talked alot, felt special when we were together) and they turned out to be quick flings.......so basically the girls ACTED like they wanna be with me, only to tell me that they are'nt interested

AT THE SAME TIME, ive had about 5 girls who acted the same way as i described above, except they DID want something serious (aka a relationship)

my most recent example of why I ask this question:

met a girl at the club, hb8 professional ballerina, she was french, we danced all night, i felt like i DIDNT want to just **** her (****in have no idea why), so i got her # and we had 2 very very good dates, lotsa of making out and cuddling, she was acting like girls b4 did when they wanted to date me and be with me, so i went along and was in a "sweet loving exciting" mode as opposed to "im gonna fvck ur brains out" mode

what happened? she told me i was too serious and she was scared, end of story

I READ HER WRONG

this has happened to me several times, and i still cant tell if a girl is being really loving and sweet and doin shyt and being interested, i still cant tell if she wants a quick fvck or a relationship

this isnt me really askin advice, i just wanna discuss this question and whats up with it with anyone who knows what im talkin about

 

[skip2mylou781]

to expand - i have had plenty of 1 nite stands and those girls just do not act like they want somethin serious, which is the part that gets me confused about these girls that DO act like they want somethin serious

 

[wayword]

what happened? she told me i was too serious and she was scared, end of story

Why is that end of story? That means she was already actually THINKING about a relationship, to be scared of it (when you never even brought it up). Just back off and lighten things up.

Or, the real answer may be much simpler. If she's <20, she's probably not serious..

 

[skip2mylou781]

Why is that end of story? That means she was already actually THINKING about a relationship, to be scared of it (when you never even brought it up). Just back off and lighten things up.

Or, the real answer may be much simpler. If she's <20, she's probably not serious..

well, we had plans for a friday nite and she broke those 2 hours b4hand telling me "shes scared, im too serious bla bla bla" and she also added that she ditched me for friends cuz her friends r 1st priority to her........so i called her later, acted very UNSERIOUS and told her we r hanging out in 3 days (on a monday) and she said ok.........monday rolls around, she cancels on me VIA TEXT MESSAGE, saying she cant see me cuz shes seein her friends again and i should respect that - i told her she got no respect for my time and that im not interested anymore

yea, that IS end of story lol - flaked on twice with a good amount of disrespect, and that was after 2 AMAZING dates

 

[wayword]

well, we had plans for a friday nite and she broke those 2 hours b4hand telling me "shes scared, im too serious bla bla bla" and she also added that she ditched me for friends cuz her friends r 1st priority to her........so i called her later, acted very UNSERIOUS and told her we r hanging out in 3 days (on a monday)

Ok, after getting flaked hard, why did you call back and immediately REWARD that behavior with trying to take her out on another date in 3 days?

Because she's the Prize? :nono:

Sounds like she's a playa and has got some other plates she's spinning. Well, as an HB8 French ballerina, how could she not? I am now guessing she is >20 and secretly ready for a relationship, just not with you (just gave that to you an excuse).

But, the question is how you could have had 2 great dates, and then she suddenly pulls a 180?

 

[DonJuanForever]

"How does one tell if a girl is interested in being serious or if shes interested in just a quick fling??"

It's VERY HARD TO TELL unless you've been around the girl for a while. Honestly what I do skip, is that I don't worry about things like that. See I approach every chick the same, still in sexual flow and I let it progress to sex. In a bunch of 10-15 chicks, some will be what I call "fvck partners and social proof buddies" some will be "wifey types" some will be "a good girlfriend to have right now." See it's all depending on THAT PARTICULAR CHICK'S current life standing, mood, values, goals, etc.

It's hard to stand and point a chick out and say, "that's a wifey chick," because you won't know until spending time wit the chick.

So skip, just go out and focus on getting laid FIRST. Then, sort out your chicks. It's like playing spades..FIRST just focus on getting all your cards, once you made sure you have all your cards, then sort them out on how you wanna play them.

Got me?

 

[skip2mylou781]

Ok, after getting flaked hard, why did you call back and immediately REWARD that behavior with trying to take her out on another date in 3 days?

Because she's the Prize? :nono:

Sounds like she's a playa and has got some other plates she's spinning. Well, as an HB8 French ballerina, how could she not? I am now guessing she is >20 and secretly ready for a relationship, just not with you (just gave that to you an excuse).

But, the question is how you could have had 2 great dates, and then she suddenly pulls a 180?

i actualyl didnt reward her when i called her, i instead toughened up and said i dont care bout her being scared and i just wanna have fun and i TOLD her shes seeing me monday (3 days after the day of me callin her), i TOOK CONTROL - i wasnt gonna wait 3 days, i am the LAST person to play phone games

2 great dates, she pulled a 180 - this is the point of this thread lol.....not just about ME or HER, but about girls who do THAT KIND OF THING in general

 

[skip2mylou781]

"How does one tell if a girl is interested in being serious or if shes interested in just a quick fling??"

It's VERY HARD TO TELL unless you've been around the girl for a while. Honestly what I do skip, is that I don't worry about things like that. See I approach every chick the same, still in sexual flow and I let it progress to sex. In a bunch of 10-15 chicks, some will be what I call "fvck partners and social proof buddies" some will be "wifey types" some will be "a good girlfriend to have right now." See it's all depending on THAT PARTICULAR CHICK'S current life standing, mood, values, goals, etc.

It's hard to stand and point a chick out and say, "that's a wifey chick," because you won't know until spending time wit the chick.

So skip, just go out and focus on getting laid FIRST. Then, sort out your chicks. It's like playing spades..FIRST just focus on getting all your cards, once you made sure you have all your cards, then sort them out on how you wanna play them.

Got me?

"focus on getting laid first" - that girl is part of the reason that i had the realization of makign the biggest mistake and not just escalating to sex AKA my other thread that i just made

i made the mistake, id love to just fvck her, but at this point, shes been a flakey lil ***** ever since i last saw her (which was only a week ago!), so im not gonna try with her.....thanks to myspace, i got too many other options in my pvssy flow (thanks djf!) lol

 

[wayword]

i TOLD her shes seeing me monday (3 days after the day of me callin her), i TOOK CONTROL - i wasnt gonna wait 3 days, i am the LAST person to play phone games

WRONG. If you really had TRUE DOMINANCE AND CONTROL, you wouldn't have had to TELL HER what to do (which she didn't do anyways). She'd be begging to do it...

And yes, you were rewarding her with a date. How is that not a reward? Should we start taking felons out on dates now to punish them? :crackup:

Look, women are like ropes. They are meant to be pulled behind (followers), not pushed ahead (leaders). Try pushing a rope sometime and see how far you get. Well, I guess you just did...and not far, huh?

Anyways, maybe it's her problem (loss), not yours. NEXT!

 

[skip2mylou781]

u know, i didnt escalate to sex with her when i had the chance cuz i actually thought she could be gf material - BIGGEST MISTAKE I MADE THERE

 

[DonJuanForever]

skip you said..

"id love to just fvck her, but at this point, shes been a flakey lil ***** ever since i last saw her (which was only a week ago!), so im not gonna try with her.."

skip do this...just be in sexual state 24/7 around women! Just do that...and let yourself flow, let your instincts guide you while you are in it, and you'll be fine.

Again, some girls are "clearly" feeling you and want you to chase them a bit, lol, I kinda like that because I like to catch the bytch and fvck her.

But I'm telling. K.I.S.S. keep it simple and fvckin stupid, just be in sexual state and let it guide you..you'll be fine bro, lol...I'm tellin you. :crackup: You guys make this too damn hard man.

Now again, who wants to do Real Estate, lol?

 

[DarkLight]

u know, i didnt escalate to sex with her when i had the chance cuz i actually thought she could be gf material - BIGGEST MISTAKE I MADE THERE

Yop! Hate that sh!t. I've made the same mistake a few times before too.
Its like you want to treat this one different, cause you want different things with her... and all the while your shooting yourself in the foot.

Like DJF said... Fvck'em First.

The ones that are lookin for a relationship, will want it more after that.
The ones that aren't lookin for it, might want it after that.
The ones that TRULY aren't lookin for it and just the ONS, well... cool. lol
(maybe they have some GF's that are lookin for it, and the wrath will be spread)

Its crazy how b!tches work. You slut'em out, and they want more from you. You treat them like an equal cool goddess, with noble intentions... they get "scared"....... hahahaaa

Bi!tches are crazy! But hey............ thats what they are.
So we gotta learn from it, and use that knowledge accordingly.

Peace'

 

[DonJuanForever]

Darklight said,

"Its crazy how b!tches work. You slut'em out, and they want more from you. You treat them like an equal cool goddess, with noble intentions... they get "scared"....... hahahaaa"

I want you guys to remember something. Growing up in our AFC days, when we found this site and it said that "Women like Jerks over Nice Guys" that made us all bitter about women and the FIRST THING WE DID (cause I know I did it) was began to "act" more uninterested in her, like a jerk, etc.

The statement of women like Jerks over Nice Guys IS INCORRECT. Totally, fvckin INCORRECT.

Women fvck guys who are very SEXUAL...again, have a very high sexual flow and let it progress guys.

What just so happens, is that with most jerks, they would be very sexual and LET IT PROGRESS, mainly because he's aggressive and doesn't give a fvck a lot, but he doesn't really understand it's his "not being afraid to be sexual and let it flow" that's getting him azz.

With most nice guys, they (just like the Jerk) don't understand that it's being sexual around women and "letting it flow" that gets them, so when the nice guy feels like being sexual he STOPS IT AND HOLDS IT IN....as a result, shyt doesn't flow into a sexual encounter, and a girl can't fvcking be ANYTHING TO YOU, if you don't fvck her FIRST.

Remember, what a chick will be is kind of pre-determined in a way, lol...I don't know it could or couldn't be. But some chicks will be best friends/social proof/road dogs with you after you fvck them, some chicks will be your preacher/teacher/coach after you fvck them, some chicks will be your enemy after you fvck them, some chicks will be like Moses in female flesh to you after you fvck them...

Just do this, and make this simple and stupid. Just be in sexual flow around women 24/7 and let it flow, learn how to do that and be comfortable doing that. You'll get your girlfriends, your wifeys, your fvck partners, and your best friends...rolled up into one big thing I call, PVSSY FLOW.

 

[Skydiver43127]

she told me i was too serious and she was scared, end of story

Been in this situation once. Immediately told the girl, in a very polite way, that she must have gotten me wrong, cause I'm not looking for a girlfriend. Then I dropped the second bomb - that, of course, I'm not dating her exclusively. It was 100% truth and returned her attraction immediately.

This whole situation, however, was a result of one of my clumsy early attempts at DJ-ing. What I did was just good damage control, not a winning strategy. Generally, I agree with the "sleep first, ask questions later" concept.

 

[Phyzzle]

Keep things in bang her brains out mode unitl SHE ASKS.

Seems like every woman will eventually ask, "so, is this a fling, or are we together."

That's one thing that is verbal. No need to read signs.

 

[skip2mylou781]

TROLL!!! Dont respond or feed to the trolls guys lets ignore him!

dreamxhenry GET THE **** OUTTA HERE BEFORE I SLICE YOUR THROAT

 

[S1NN3R]

That's got to be the most limp-d!cked, wanna be tough guy threat I've ever heard. What are you going to do, buy a plane ticket to his town and track him down? Gods, that's funny, especially coming from a fruit-cup bi-boy like yourself.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Dude seriously, I want to know, what is it that you guys have against skip NOW, and had against me when I was PVSSYEATER.

What is it?? You guys fvck wit skip just like you fvcked with me, what is it? What...I need to fvckin know, somebody explain this to me.

 

[KoalaKing]

Dude seriously, I want to know, what is it that you guys have against skip NOW, and had against me when I was PVSSYEATER.

What is it?? You guys fvck wit skip just like you fvcked with me, what is it? What...I need to fvckin know, somebody explain this to me.

He skip2mylou is the guy who is constantly attacking everyone else on the site before they hit back and attack him.
He claims to be a PRETTY LITTLE WHITE BOY yet he claims to be fu-cking all of these hot babes in a way that only a BIG BLACK BROTHA with a CO-CK the size of a HORSE would ever be able to do in true life.
If he had any type of brain in his head and said that he was black and not white when he was asked then the guys on here may have believed him, the guy is a fool. :yes:

 

[KillaCam]

Well, I think it's pretty much official Skip is back. He made a last post, left, came back to make another last post, and has hung around ever since.

Welcome back Skippy.