"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Very gorgeous girl at the gym

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Jair213 said:
i have talk to girls between sets but they seem to want to keep talking and every time i rest between a set i have to cut off the conversation. it happen twice with two girls i kept cutting the conversation because i make sure i get 45 seconds rest between each set they seemed to get the wrong idea or they get butt hurt due to it.. one of them seemed to keep following me everywere ****t was annoying.. i guess they both got the wrong idea as i told them both that if i keep cutting in between conversations is because i only let my self rest a certain amount of time.. never again did they spoke to me -_-
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.... for your sake, I hope they were ugly.

If not, I would have closed then and there and gone right back to lifting. I always cut convos short with people I see at the gym since you don't really need an excuse. A simple "hey I need to do my next set, but let's get together/talk later/etc" is all you need.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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muscleman said:
.... for your sake, I hope they were ugly.

If not, I would have closed then and there and gone right back to lifting. I always cut convos short with people I see at the gym since you don't really need an excuse. A simple "hey I need to do my next set, but let's get together/talk later/etc" is all you need.
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both were easily hb8's... and a few guys have told me that i look intimidating at the gym also idk watts settin that vibe offf maybe because i just seem to be thinking and not care about anyone or any of my surroundings other than im just way to focus on my work out...

well i just dont prefer gaming or pickin up chicks at the gym man. to each its own.. all good.
 
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