"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Very Frustrated Right Now

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MiKe23

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It seems every girl I even consider to try and work on to get somewhere with has a crush on some fa***** who doesnt even like her back. In my school, the pickings are slim. Im almost out of resources. I would go out and try and find girls outside of HS but im very busy and am not even allowed to stay out past 1030. Also it seems like I can never draw any attention to myself in school. It happens with my friends and any girls im going after. Im pretty good lookin so I know its not that. I could really use some help. Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your situation is pretty general. For starters, I'd recommend that you read the DJ bible. After you've pinpointed your problems, then ask a more specific question.

-Damian
 
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Can't get attention on yourself?There's a lot of things you can do about that.

Learn a musical instrument,use a spicy cologne once in a while,build up some muscle (this is an amazing way,it really works trust me) to name a few.

Oh,and the 'girl likes some other guy' problem. That is very common,almost every girl likes someone.You may ask why it's not you,but don't.Get the girls number anyway and drop her a call and ask her out.Since the guy she likes doesn't care about her,it won't really be hard to change her opinions about you *ahem*.

There's a nice article that says,'If youre not what the girl prefers then you cant get close to her is total BS.You have to let her know that youre a great guy and a great challenge for the girl which would make her attracted towards you'. Or was this a newsletter?I forgot..
 
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42-Colrath

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It also sounds like you are looking at everything really negatively Mike. Along with that little boost of confidence, and what Adit was saying may help you get on the right track. I almost felt the same way a few months ago but then I read some random article in the bible about confidence and I was doing better.
 
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