Very EMBARRASSING

[Italia]

I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months and we both agreed its time we ''move'' things further.
The thing is though I am VERY and I mean VERY self conscious about my penis. For one it is uncirumcised and it is very uncommon here in the states.
Also my penis size isnt really big as I hear most guys are...(No homo)
Im just scared that she will laugh or in general wont have sex with me due to my low endowment down south..
I mean I have a nice body and all but I cant do jack crap about my penis size which scares me to death, having a nice body only does so much... I am in dire need of help,Thanks.

And also please dont make jokes.. It's unnecessary.

 

[true romance]

it's only an issue if you make it an issue. This could make your penis limp with thought of insecure and not comfortable with your body.

Tell youself that she will scream of pleasure, bang her like there is no tomorrow.


lots Foreplay to enhance the excitement...

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/172601243.html

btw, every woman I've ever met thinks her butt is too big and her t!ts are too small, or too big if they big.

 

[eldafar]

Never lose confidence in your manhood. If you are still concerned, (I don't really think it matters all that much), you can read http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=71762.

If it's first time for both of you, she's not gonna feel much anyways and you'll come too soon either way. But in the future, you can still make her feel as good as any guy can as long as your penis is at least 4 inches long when erect, or you know how to use your fingers/tongue.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I assume you don't want to say how big you are, but know this. The vast vast VAST majority of size numbers you hear are very exaggerated.

The only ones worth trusting are those measured and reported by medical professionals, since it's been proven that even in anonymous surveys, guys exaggerate if they get to report themselves. Also girls are terrible at estimating.

Actual average size is about 5 inches long and under 5 inches around. Not 6.5 inches like you hear, not 10 inches like you'd imagine from hearing what guys say. Just 5 inches.

And this is average, so roughly half of all guys are smaller than this!

Besides, being too big is over rated. I'm by no means huge, but bigger than average, and I've hurt girls accidentally plenty of times by going too deep. A female friend of mine says she once tried ****ing a guy that was about 8 inches and it just hurt too much. What's so great about that?

As for the uncircumcised thing, yes you are right it is rare around here. You do hear a lot of women claim its so gross and they'd play with one and etc. Truth is most of them have never even seen one. From personal experience, as long as you are clean the girl will not mind. Especially if you guys are in a good relationship, it'd be retarded for her to not accept you because you're natural.

And if she insists that she only wants cut ****s, tell her to get her **** hood amputated, because it'd be "cleaner and more asthetically pleasing".

EDIT: Just wanted to add that your feelings are perfectly normal. With the girl I lost my virginity too, I was doing stuff to her like fingering for almost a month before I let her touch me because I was worried about what she'd think about it being uncut. When it finally happened I wanted to kick myself for waiting so long.

 

[danro]

Don't worry about a thing. Here is a direct quote from non other than Ron Jeremy (and I'm not making this up, he said it) "I don't know many women who are size queens, there are a rare few, but most don't care. I've had more women get off using my mouth and with my penis."

Don't worry about it, she would be a real shallow ***** if as soon as you pull down your pants she goes "nevermind". Don't worry about it and just have fun!

 

[mrRuckus]

Actual average size is about 5 inches long and under 5 inches around. Not 6.5 inches like you hear, not 10 inches like you'd imagine from hearing what guys say. Just 5 inches.

And this is average, so roughly half of all guys are smaller than this!

Dude, average is around 6" long and girth about 5".

The average is always around 6 no matter the method of the study: whether a researcher measures or the men report it themselves. Here's just 3 of the studies right here: http://www.statssheet.com/articles/article36751.html


I'm 7.5" and i forget the girth but i have it on my computer at home and that's above average too. Women are either amazed at the thought (note: thought) or barely care at all. No one has ever complained about it hurting other than certain weird positions like reverse cowgirl that i think cause it to hit their cervix...or from just going too long. Most positions are just fine.

Girls i've talked to are more concerned about girth than length which makes sense since i think only the first 3 inches into the vagina are sensitive if i remember right.

Only 3" and below is considered abnormally small by statistical standards.

Erect size is vastly different than flaccid size. Just because you are 2" flaccid doesn't mean you can't be average or above average when you are hard. The original poster shouldn't care about not being circumsized. He is LUCKY. His sex is BETTER for him. Circumscision desensitizes the penis. And what's the big deal? All you do is pull the foreskin down off the head when you get hard. And being circumsized is becoming less and less common since it's pretty much a bogus practice and whatever national health bodies there are are no longer recommending it anymore than they are recommending leeching for the common cold.

 

[SmoothTalker]

mrRuckus, the first two of the studies from your link were self reported, and therefore bull****. Further, notice the disclaimer at the bottom, that data is provided by a guy that ownes a penis enlargement business. I'm not saying he made up the data, but there are many more than 4 studies available. I'm guessing he picked the 4 with the bigger measurements.

Notice none of the ones measured by researchers are above 6 inches. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis_size Some studies put it closer to 5, others put it closer to 6, but I've yet to see a single study where measurement was done by staff that placed it above 6 inches. I would put it closer to 5 because that's what most doctor measured ones are. The studies closer to 6 are usually done on a volunteer basis by condom companies. Well guess what, guys would be much more likely to sign up to get measured if they're huge. How many guys with 3 inch ****s do you think volunteered for that study?

Also, I guess you've just dated women with deep vaginas? I don't know, I've hurt girls with normal girl on top, and even missionary once in a while, and I'm a bit smaller than you, somewhere around 6.5-7 inches. Guess it depends on a lot of things.

 

[Italia]

Thanks guys.. Im just VERY VERY scared.. because while we were going out.. She would randomly mention about seeing small ****s in porn and would laugh... I mean im not blaming her for not wanting one .. I mean she is a girl. but its just hard for me. BTW (NO HOMO..) IM 16 and 6 inches.. Also I made a joke when we 1st went out.. Iunno how it lead to it but I ended up saying ''You like big ****s huh?'' Then she said ''You bet I do'' That scared me because my manhood is no where near ''BIG'' I could have had sex with other girls.. but im just VERY self conscious of my penis.. AND ITS uncircumcised!!

..Thanks for the info though... But I dont think ill ever have sex.

 

[Adam]

..Thanks for the info though... But I dont think ill ever have sex.

If that wasn't a joke you need to seriously get your sh1t together bud. If you are seriously this insecure about something as INSIGNIFICANT as penis length you need to march to the DJ bible now and read up on not being a wussy pr1ck.

Penis size is solely down to genetics - you can change it as easily as you can change your blood type - so there's absolutely no reason for you to dwell on it AT ALL. Instead, focus on the things you can change: improve your social skills, workout, increase your social circle and leave pointless worries behind.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Assuming you're being serious and this isn't the typical internet practice of adding 4 inches, chill out man. 6 inches is either smack dead normal or very slightly above normal depending on who you ask, absolutely nothing to worry about.

 

[decades]

focus on getting her turned on. If she is she won't care what you got down there as long as it functions.

 

[Italia]

FRom the poster above about improving soical skills and w.e...
I already have a nice body and alot of friends... I hear about how woman cheat on their BF's or betetr yet husbands dude to lack of a sex life.. So if my girl isnt fond of my **** size.... She will either bail or just cheat on me..
What scares me is that I cant change what I have, I have a veru nice body.. Hell when we met she complimented me on my body.. Thats how I even started talking to her.. But im just SCARED because I cant change it.. Like my body. I know I sound like an idiot but im just scared of even to go far enough with a girl because i KNOW it will lead to us having sex which I most likely will dodge.. Hell I've done it b4 already..

 

[SmoothTalker]

Alright man listen to your logic, it makes no sense.

Worst (and very unlikely case) is she will see how big you are, be very disappointed, and either cheat on you, refuse to have sex, or break up.

Again that's the absolute worst that can happen and is very unlikely.

Well so what if it does, your position then will only be as bad as it is now! Right now you're already not getting sex.

And girls like sex too man. You think your girl will stay with you forever, stay faithful forever if you never sleep with her? Yeah right. On top of that, if you constantly turn down all action, she'll probably start thinking you're gay.

Just grab your balls and go for it, you literally have nothing to lose and a LOT to gain.

 

[Ken785]

FRom the poster above about improving soical skills and w.e...
I already have a nice body and alot of friends... I hear about how woman cheat on their BF's or betetr yet husbands dude to lack of a sex life.. So if my girl isnt fond of my **** size.... She will either bail or just cheat on me..
What scares me is that I cant change what I have, I have a veru nice body.. Hell when we met she complimented me on my body.. Thats how I even started talking to her.. But im just SCARED because I cant change it.. Like my body. I know I sound like an idiot but im just scared of even to go far enough with a girl because i KNOW it will lead to us having sex which I most likely will dodge.. Hell I've done it b4 already..

Be a fvckin man. Dont worry about you're d!ck and concentrate on having balls instead. Whats she going to say after you use it to fvck the living sh!t out of her? If she still makes fun of you about it...shes an immature b!tch.

Make fun of her tit size. Also for next time, Instead of cvmming in her mouth when she asks you too...aim for her eye...when it splatters inside and shes running around screaming like a chicken...you can say to her with a smile "Hows that for a small d!ck honey??"

Hows that for immature??

 

[AKA FLEX]

Thanks guys.. Im just VERY VERY scared.. because while we were going out.. She would randomly mention about seeing small ****s in porn and would laugh... I mean im not blaming her for not wanting one .. I mean she is a girl. but its just hard for me. BTW (NO HOMO..) IM 16 and 6 inches.. Also I made a joke when we 1st went out.. Iunno how it lead to it but I ended up saying ''You like big ****s huh?'' Then she said ''You bet I do'' That scared me because my manhood is no where near ''BIG'' I could have had sex with other girls.. but im just VERY self conscious of my penis.. AND ITS uncircumcised!!

..Thanks for the info though... But I dont think ill ever have sex.

Strap on some balls man. 6 inches is about average and some chicks prefer uncircumcised. I'm guessing this girl has never even seen what she considers a "big ****" outside of porn movies.

 

[igotaplan]

Girls for the most part don't give a sh!t about penis size...it's how you use the tool that matters. Seriously, if a girl takes the initiative to go down on you and has the nerve to say anything negative about your junk she deserves a slap in the face. Be it the size, circumfrence, whether it's cut or not...any decent woman should be aware that a guy isn't good in bed just because his schlong is as big as his shins.

 

[LesaneCrooks]

I was in a similar position, with regards to the uncircumsized question. I used to be VERY self concious about it until i became sexually active. Simply put, it is a non issue. I have never, and i repeat NEVER, had a girl even mention it, it isnt even thought about. In fact, some studies have shown (I apologize but your just gonna have to take my word for it, i dont have links), that sex w/ an uncircumcized man can be more pleasurable for a women because we make shorter thrusts, hitting the sensitive outer parts of the vagina more frequently. Who knows if that is bs, but regardless, it isnt something someone should worry about either way, theres nothing wrong or abnormal about being the way God made you.

As for size, it is also irrelevent. Only guys (who are probably hung badly themselves) will tell you different. Many girls dont have sex for orgasm, or dont have them during sex, especially at your age, so that shouldnt be an issue.

Relax and enjoy sex man, dont fret, its supposed to be FUN, not nervewracking, although its impossible sometimes to relax abut this kinda stuff. Regardless, take it from someone slightly older who was in a similar boat, what your worried about isnt worth the anxiety.

 

[Lion]

Yeah don't worry. Have you even read the DJ bible? Loads of guys outside of the US are uncircumsized. If you worry then your girl will pick up on this. Your mindset has to exude confidence, especially when getting intimate.

 

[Italia]

I heard alot of storys where women would leave their man dude to bad sex life. And not having a large penis or an adequate one will most likely lead to a bad sex life... Which will equal not having a good sex life then a GF or wife cheating on you. What im saying is.. Im pretty much ****ed because i cant change my size or anything.. I have a nice body.. im in shape but that does jack **** for actual sex... I ahng around alot of girls and time to time they will bring up about guys with a small penis and would laugh and they said they wouldnt want to date a guy with one...