very confusing situation with girl, advice please...

[tony-montana]

okay i'll try make this as short as possible...

about 4 months ago i met some girl online (yes sad i know) but i hardly go out cause i cant be fuked. unless my friends come pick me up or whatever. so she was usually the one asking to meet up and i refused a couple times because it was a night club and too late at night. eventually we set up a date and we met. had an alright time... no kissing or hugging happened, however when i got home she txt me asking where i was cause she was online and i wasn't. she also asked me why i didnt hug her and i jokingly said "okay next time it'll be a kiss" and she just smiled.

unfortunately, there was not a next time. she went away to another state to work for about 5 months. we rarely talked. couple txt messages here and there, nothing special. very recently she was online and told me she had a bf blah blah (i already knew this - probably explained the rare talks we had) and just today she comes back... i'm currently talking to her now online and she's saying sh!t like:

"my BF dumped me lol"
"i gota work with that prick everyday now lol"

i did not say one thing about that and totally ignored it and just asked about something else. she also told me she lost my number. (how do you lose a number that's saved on a phone???) anyway... she's just told me that shes going into town tomorrow and if i want i can meet her there and collect a couple movies i wanted from her (maybe shes just going in and out of town, that'll be gay). i'm not sure what i should do about this girl... she's always back n forth with guys. first it was this guy before me, she dumped him, went out with me once, went away for work and met someone else, now she wants to see me again. i don't know if i should be pulling any moves on her since she just got dumped. and i can't go to see a movie again since we already done that our first date... (she wanted a kiss that night i just didn't do it cause it was a really good movie, lol) :S what to do what to do!

p.s: shes going back to work very soon (with that guy) in another state, maybe i shouldnt waste time with her? i'm not really into the fuk buddy system. i really want LTR. not sure she's the type for me. but we get along very well and share similar likes/dislikes and she's a bit geeky like me - as for a relationship though i can imagine it being shattered.

any ideas?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Ok, I just typed a fcuking novel, but was logged out.

Bottom line -- You're too into her and she's not into you.. Try to bang her. If she doesn't fcuk you, then find some other girls to bang. She's keeping you around as an emotional tampon. I know you want a LTR, but she doesn't want one with you and she's made that clear with her actions.

 

[tony-montana]

LOL.. hey dont worry anyway. she just pulled a b!tch on me. "gnite" while i was talking. maybe she's pissed off i never said i was gonna meet her tomorrow lol. damn women are heartbreakers.