Hey, im really confused about this and have been thinking about it for a while and just can't figure it out. Thiscute girl from my gym class approached me and we had flirted a bit before but anyways during lunch she actually asked me out (interesting because this girl was honestly not that confident about herself) and after going out with her for a couple days could tell she was totally infacuated with me (im not trying to brag like a **** or anything). Anyways I invite her over to watch a movie at my house, we quickly start making out, i get it to the point where i lift her shirt and bra up and give some oral stimulation to her tits and after a bit we go back to watching the movie. Things go on like that for give or take an hour till her mom comes and on the way up I already knew subconsiouly somthing wasn't right because she didn't talk too much. School on Monday I could tell what was about to happen all of gym, shes holding a note thats about two pages long, I have no idea what the relevance of it was, and all she says at the end is i think we should just be friends, I say OK and then smile and walk away. I just can't figure this one out, a mutual friend says that my ex told her its because i went too fast, i dont buy it because she is spreading it about school. Any idea why she would react this way? Thanks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Very confused with this reaction
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