"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VERY aggressive style.

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Hi guys.

What are your views on aggressive approaches - or, where you start soft, and very fast escalate into sexual talk ie. "I wanna take you home" kind of talk?

It got me into a one night stand this Saturday, and it was the first time i tried it. Ofc. it had something to do with the girl (a bit slutty), but still, what are your views/experience with this?

I will post lay report later
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know the RSD guys refer to it as "beast mode"; going super hard for a close and getting physical quickly.

Or direct game.

Remember that if a girl likes you, she'll make it easy for you.
 

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Going aggressive at nightclubs=great

Going aggressive in Economics class=not great

That's my thoughts on that.
 

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thefonz said:
Going aggressive at nightclubs=great

Going aggressive in Economics class=not great

That's my thoughts on that.
Exactly. Different tool for different jobs.
 

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Phat Rabbit, i like your answer, and have to add something;

Ofc. i am not going for the "wanna ****?" within 5 mins, not at all.
To explain my style a bit;
- Atm i have a girl who i do not wanna marry, so i am in a relationsship where i have guaranteed sex (atm this is not going so well, which is posted in another post).
Anyway, the guaranteed sex, is making me lack desperation, and giving me GREAT confidence, which girls senses..

So within 10 min of a convo, i Kiss-close.
Then afterwards, i speak about sex, just in general.
After a totalt of 15-20 min of convo, i go in for the AGRESSIVE "you wanna have sex with me" style :)! ..

And ofc., all of theese approaches is in clubs/bars/Night scenario.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thefonz said:
Going aggressive at nightclubs=great

Going aggressive in Economics class=not great

That's my thoughts on that.
Ha I can imagine it...
You: Hey, what the hell is the professor talking about?
Her: Supply and demand.
You: I'd love to supply you with a balls deep experience back at my pad b1tch.
Her: What??
You: I want you to demand I fvck you!
Her: WTF
 
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