You're right Venom, it took me awhile to understand this AND admit it but I have been 'socially conditioned' to find it disrespectful when a man Mode One's me sexually in an obvious and blatant way.
And to believe HE will disrespect me also if I were to agree to it!
I have rejected a few man I have liked and been attracted to because of this conditioning as well! It can be a real struggle sometimes internally.
Most women think this^ way.
But instead of accepting it and going along with it, it's the man's job to
disarm and even
challenge this
conditioning.
This creates a showdown; a standoff.
A man's Mode One mentality
vs A woman's social conditioning.
Both sides are bound to collide.
It is the man's job to get the woman to
break.
The
right man can achieve this.
I'm in a relationship now, but if by chance it didn't work out, I'm gonna have to rethink this.
Your man is probably a bona fided beta.
Lose him and get with me...I'm sure we'll have even better chemistry and good times.
I have a friend who is considered "high quality" (I do know you hate when I describe women this way but she IS) and she doesn't give a rat's rear about social conditioning and she's having the time of her life, using her utmost discretion of course!
Ahhh, a rebel.
She sounds like fun.