"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vday help for a girl i just started speaking to...

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Been speaking to this girl for about 7 weeks now, we me thru friends on facebook, never actually met f2f cause she's in the next state over. we already setup a date for next weekend to finally meet, and we're both really excited. we talk alot, do yahoo video chat all the time,etc. Lotsa very heavy sex talk, i know for certain when we we meet up we're having sex, i did all the proper dj moves in the begining and am at the point know where i've got her in the palm of my hand. My question is, what should i do or say today for vday??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Been speaking to this girl for about 7 weeks now, we me thru friends on facebook, never actually met f2f cause she's in the next state over. we already setup a date for next weekend to finally meet, and we're both really excited. we talk alot, do yahoo video chat all the time,etc. Lotsa very heavy sex talk, i know for certain when we we meet up we're having sex, i did all the proper dj moves in the begining and am at the point know where i've got her in the palm of my hand. My question is, what should i do or say today for vday??
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pretend you forgot it was today. SEriously. It's not suitable. Wait until next year.
or make a general facebook status saying happy v-day everyone but don't make HER your valentine...Won't hurt her feeling. she will just think, fair enough, we are not in a relationship, we haven't even met. Will make her even more yours
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Been speaking to this girl for about 7 weeks now, we me thru friends on facebook, never actually met f2f cause she's in the next state over. we already setup a date for next weekend to finally meet, and we're both really excited. we talk alot, do yahoo video chat all the time,etc. Lotsa very heavy sex talk, i know for certain when we we meet up we're having sex, i did all the proper dj moves in the begining and am at the point know where i've got her in the palm of my hand. My question is, what should i do or say today for vday??
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You have her in the palm of your hand? It's been two months and you havent even met her. She could totally suck in person. So could you.

What should you do or say for a woman who you've been "chatting" with for 7 weeks, but never met face to face? Hmm. What do you think?

At the most, you could say "Happy Valentine's day. We'll have a great time on Friday." But the way you've been chatting to her nonstop for 7 weeks, I really can't imagine how you guys' dialogue is.
 
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Mantis Toboggan said:
At the most, you could say "Happy Valentine's day. We'll have a great time on Friday." But the way you've been chatting to her nonstop for 7 weeks, I really can't imagine how you guys' dialogue is.
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yep, i sense a lot of i really like you, I can't wait to hold you etc etc
*facepalm*
^^
 
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You've never actually met this girl. Your interaction has been just on the internet. For you, today is like any other day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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*lol* I just sent ~15 girls a "Happy Valentines Day" and they liked it. I always tend to do that, it's a good way to stay in contact :)
 
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HA my bf just sent me that vid with a happy valentines day
and i think it's an amazing V-day gift:) amazing live
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mi_b0M5LTbE

he also told me we'll have an amazing week-end ( we can only see each other this week end)
god I'm in love with a perfect guy. He is manly, funny, shamless ( and not always talking about being homo or not like some poeple on this forum which is suspect), strong, show his feeling only to his very close friend and me, plays rugby and border line professional level. Is smart as hell and successfull in finance. Educated, well read, well traveled, opened, economically conservative and socially liberal, did I say strong? phisically strong, and mentally. Yet totally nuts and not scared of getting out of the box, able to send me a video of "my love" live and perfectly mean it. Was very hard to get cause not a relationship guy at all usually but amazing, amazing guy.


oh and his parents love me and my parents especially my mom have suspectly strongly positive feelings toward him^^ like if i didn't marry him they would adopt him.

sorry i had to let it out somewhere, i'll get a hold of myself i promise and I don't know, it's the valentine spirit. Althought maybe it can help you see what makes a girl crazy about you...?
 
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