"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vBulletin Board Post Restrictor

cjyogz

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I've been on a board before that has a post restrictor on it. Basically what that means is the it restricts the user from posting another post for a set amount of time, say, 30 secs. This way, it'll be harder for these jerks to post spam all over the place.

I know that they are signing up as multiple users, but still, surely it would help in some way.

Only thing is, i don't quite remember if it was a vBulletin board, but i'm pretty sure it was.

Perhaps our mods can implent this. Just a suggestion.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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