"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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After everything heals up, everything is pretty much back to normal. The only weird thing is the first few times you ejaculate after the surgery, you cvm blood.
Even if the decline in drive is psychological I'm still staying away :nervous:
But I hope it is fine because It would be great to not have to worry about condom breakage and such.
How old were you when you got it done?Desdinova said:It doesn't change your voice, and it doesn't negatively affect your man levels. But if you're in a LTR with a woman you can trust, it's great not having to use rubbers
After everything heals up, everything is pretty much back to normal. The only weird thing is the first few times you ejaculate after the surgery, you cvm blood.
What made you make the decision?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rollo Tomassi
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The only thing that sucks about the surgery is when they fill your nuts full of the numbing agent. I swear to god, it felt like my nuts were going to explode.