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google planned parenthood.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hahaha lil ray ray. Cracked me up big time xDTenacity said:I'm getting my "V" done most likely in October. Not creating kids and not getting married, which means I'm saving a SIGNIFICANT amount of money, time, energy and mental health/stress.
Life is hard enough, all you can do is PRAY for these people out here with kids in bad situations. Such as guys with kids they have to pay excessive child support for, that they rarely even get to see. Or for single mothers who fvcked Lil Ray Ray and had 3 of his kids, receiving no help from Lil Ray Ray to take care of such kids and having to spend the REST OF THEIR LIFE living in the ghetto.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Even after you do the Vasectomy procedure, it takes a little while for it to "kick in" so you would still have to wear condoms for a little while right after getting it done. But the reason you want one is because condoms have and do BREAK. Now, I have only had ONE condom break on me ever and that's because I was young and careless, using a condom that was way too small for my pe.nis size.SmooveMooves said:Is it that hard to be a responsible adult and simply use protection? I don't see the value in getting a Vasectomy. If you're having sex you'll still have to wear protection to dodge STDs. And then what if you change your mind...
Idk, seems like it's not worth it to shoot blanks
I'm with Aaron Clarey and I believe it's time to sit back and enjoy the decline. Let's face it, my Generation (the Millennial Generation) is going to be the last Generation to experience somewhat of a decent life here in the States before the massive shifts in the economy take over including Robotics replacing jobs, extreme Globalization, significant divides between the HAVES and the HAVE NOTS, etc.Desdinova said:Honestly, I'd love to see every guy on this forum have at least one child. It would help pave the way for a better future, instilling the values that we've learned about life through this place. Unfortunately, it's the mothers who prevent us from raising children that would better our future. The only way to combat this is to get the woman to opt out of raising the child.
Not a bad idea, but at my age I've missed my window. I certainly don't want to raise a child at my age. My father was 50 when I was conceived, and I have to admit he really didn't have the energy for it.Desdinova said:Honestly, I'd love to see every guy on this forum have at least one child. It would help pave the way for a better future, instilling the values that we've learned about life through this place.
Good point. Children often want to rebel against what their parents teach them, go out and try the opposite. They may return to it later, but kids are their own people, they're going to do what they want.piranha45 said:In addition, chances are strong that the child, upon reaching maturation and being able to think for itself, may not even agree with me and my methods, due to genetic variability overwhelming the nurture I provided in its youth. That would mark the child as a failure, from my perspective.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I completely agree with this, however I think co-habiting with a woman *may* be mutually beneficial in your later years. My ex-father-in-law was with his girlfriend for about 15 years before they moved in together. At their age, they were retired and all the kids had grown up and moved out on their own. Also, after 15 years of just being bf/gf, that woman has proven her worth.Tenacity said:I actually like this structure of women just being "friends". It allows me to experience all of the BENEFITS of women (the entertainment, the sex and the companionship) without having to deal with the COSTS of women (the stress from being married to them, having kids with them, being partnered with them to where their bad financial management affects your financial standing, and being legally tied to them to where being with her is HELL but leaving could mean an even more significant financial setback).
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.