"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Variety vs monogamy

How would you rather have it

  • sex once a month with a different woman

    Votes: 13 36.1%

  • sex anytime you want with the same woman

    Votes: 23 63.9%
  • Total voters
    36
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TheFlyOne

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If it weren't for std's and risk of unwanted pregnancy, I'd defintiely have to say variety. Condoms Suck! With that being said monogomy, unfortunately would be the safest choice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dadmonson said:
You don't think you'll get bored with that one girl??? It's kind of like having the same porno mag issued every month.
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To be real, wouldn't she get tired of you also? Not calling you out or anything, but part of being with someone so long is learning never being too boring. My opinion is based on if you found someone who is as willing as you to do new stuff every now and then.
 
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bigjohnson said:
It's probably higher than average quantity, whereas good is an indicator of quality so not precisely the right word I think, but I believe I understand what you intend. Also getting laid 12 times a year is (I suspect) way lower than average and not something I could be happy with.
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That's why I set up the question like that. Most guys who are used to getting some regular action would go crazy to only get some 12 times a year. So if you are willing to trade in a normal sex life for such infrequency, then you must REALLY value variety. I would be willing to do this for 3 years. Bang 36 good looking women, then settle down with one for regular sex.
 
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