"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Variety vs monogamy

How would you rather have it

  • sex once a month with a different woman

    Votes: 13 36.1%

  • sex anytime you want with the same woman

    Votes: 23 63.9%
  • Total voters
    36
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If it weren't for std's and risk of unwanted pregnancy, I'd defintiely have to say variety. Condoms Suck! With that being said monogomy, unfortunately would be the safest choice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dadmonson said:
You don't think you'll get bored with that one girl??? It's kind of like having the same porno mag issued every month.
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To be real, wouldn't she get tired of you also? Not calling you out or anything, but part of being with someone so long is learning never being too boring. My opinion is based on if you found someone who is as willing as you to do new stuff every now and then.
 
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bigjohnson said:
It's probably higher than average quantity, whereas good is an indicator of quality so not precisely the right word I think, but I believe I understand what you intend. Also getting laid 12 times a year is (I suspect) way lower than average and not something I could be happy with.
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That's why I set up the question like that. Most guys who are used to getting some regular action would go crazy to only get some 12 times a year. So if you are willing to trade in a normal sex life for such infrequency, then you must REALLY value variety. I would be willing to do this for 3 years. Bang 36 good looking women, then settle down with one for regular sex.
 
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