"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vanilla in Cologne

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I've been reading about some who add a few drops of vanilla to their cologne for enhanced effect. I'm just wondering what kind of vanilla should be used. I'm sure the imitation vanilla I have would not be good, but will any extract work like the kind you buy at the supermarket?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That looks like a great cologne, but I already have tons and a few that I like to wear frequently so I mainly just want to try adding the vanilla to the ones I already use. I'm just not sure what kindof vanilla to buy.
 

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it has vanilla in it already, why would you put on real vanilla?....do you want to smell like you just got done making some fudge?
 

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Pick up some Raw Vanilla by Coty. Add a tiny bit to the spot where you put on your regular cologne.

Remember though, a tiny bit goes a long way.

I've had a lot of success with just the Raw Vanilla fresh out of a shower.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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