"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vancouver, BC

solotak

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Hey all, what's up?

I recently moved here and really loving the outdoors and nature... can't wait for the snow to kick and ride some deep la nina POW. Anyway i'm looking to meet up with dj's that lives in the area. I'm down for snowboarding, hiking, meeting women (although they seem pretty snarky here :eek:), spinning music, photography whatever really. I haven't met any sosuavers before so i felt i should make some connections overseas.

I'm 24 from australia and prefer natural game, don't really follow any tactics or preplanned game but i'm happy to hangout with those who do. Gimme a shout if you wanna hang out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SPEAK

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hey im currently in denver colorado but I am looking at going to UBC or UVIC or school. Are u going to school in BC? If so what do you think?

And if your not whats BC like? And when i move up there next fall lets meet up!
 

PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
I am into cougars, let me if you spot them somewhere.

Apart from sandbar or newlands I havent seen all that many.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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