"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Value of Ring vs Value of Woman

Desdinova

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Had a friend of mine post this on FB yesterday...

Anyone wanna buy a ring? 12k obo valued at 14k
It's pretty obvious that him and his fiancee broke up.

Who in their right mind would buy a woman they barely know a $14k ring? How has this woman shown this kind of value? Oh wait, we're talking about AFCs wanting to impress their "soulmate" with an expensive ring.

In my opinion, the only woman who's worth a ring of this kind of value is a woman who's stuck with you for 25 years or longer. At that point, she's proven that she's loyal and dedicated. THAT is the only time you should buy a $14k ring.

For men who actually decide to go down the path of a traditional wedding, a cheap ring should be enough.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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speed dawg

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Of all the indoctrination we receive, diamond engagement rings are the worst. Not because I'm some misplaced idealist who is looking out for the people of Sierra Leone. It's because, D*MN, why are we paying thousands of dollars for this status symbol? It's beyond my comprehension. I get it, it's tradition and all, but what happened to the days of getting a $500 ring and being done with it? 14 F*CKING THOUSAND DOLLARS??

I like the #nohymennodiamond. That might be the only way to counter this deal.
 

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Women today get married just for the wedding. I meet women all the time that always say that one day they want to get married, they all speak about it as if it's a "check off the list" of things they want to do before they die.

I rarely meet a woman that says she wants to find ONE man that she will be with for the rest of her life, who she will support, love, and cater to on a daily basis. I rarely hear a woman say this.

As a result, I can only conclude that to most women marriage is all about the wedding, the ceremony, the courting phase, the gifts, the diamonds, and the big honeymoon. As I said before and will keep saying, this market of women only views YOU as a disposable utility.
 

G_Govan

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Tenacity said:
As a result, I can only conclude that to most women marriage is all about the wedding, the ceremony, the courting phase, the gifts, the diamonds, and the big honeymoon.
You would be correct, in fact, the groom might as well be a court jester. That's literally how they view us. When you have so many examples of how terrible an investment marriage is yet continue to see so many men sacrificing themselves for it, I can see why they don't respect us.
 

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Had a girl literally tell me these things:

1. "If you want to keep it you'd better put a ring on it" (stupid F**king song)

2." I expect to have a ring in a year and if I don't I'm not sticking around and wasting my time with someone who has no intention of marrying me"

3. " I deserve a nice wedding and I won't settle for anything less"

I'm going with Tenacity's advice and plan on never marrying. It's a f**king rip-off!

I've seen engaged girls showing off there rings to friends acting all great while there future husband has either gone into large debt or just spent a crap load of his savings to keep pre Madonna happy!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus

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ZTIME said:
Had a girl literally tell me these things:

1. "If you want to keep it you'd better put a ring on it" (stupid F**king song)
why would i have to put a ring on my property?

"it."
 
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