"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Value of life..

Laracuente

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2011
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Well basically you can say I have a new out look on life.

Yesterday I should have died or at least had have a serious injury. I'm with my mom a friend driving to see my dying grandpa and as soon as we get off the expressway some guy speeds past the red light railing the car right where I was sitting. We were in a Camry and the guy was in a suv and I walked away with only a cut on my face and hand. The driver who was speeding broke his arm and has a bad concussion. The police, emt's and everyone around me were saying I'm lucky to be alive and god was watching over me.

At first I was laughing about the incident to try and stop my mom from freaking out and I was just covering my real emotions about the incident. But today my grandpa is emitted to icu and I doubt he will last more then a week. As this is going on there is a lot of fighting within my family and pathetic *****ing over stupid ****. I'm only 17 and I already realize how short life is and how fast it can end. I've had another near death experience before but I was young and did not realize the situation fully.

What I learned from this is that just enjoy life as it goes I'm already faced with a lot of adult responsibility's at my age but I never really enjoy the moments I get to have with family friends loved ones. Just don't take everything to seriously and appreciate what you have going for you.

Right now I'm on 24 hours no sleep been on trains for about 4 to 5 hours today and 6 hours yesterday and I keep going doing what I have to do. I just wanted to share this with you guys and maybe you can leave with something positive from this post.

Guys whether it is work women family or life itself never let anything bring you down for to long and get back on your feet and get your **** done and be happy thats about all I have to say if you read all the way to the end I appreciate it. =)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Vice

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2007
Messages
2,004
Reaction score
186
Consider yourself lucky to not only be alive, but to have the awareness to come to that kind of mindset. You're gonna go far kid. Good luck to your grandpa man.
 

Laracuente

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2011
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Thanks a lot man gonna try and sleep now gotta deal with this pain in like all of my body from the after effect of it all. Gonna go get myself checked out tomorrow.
 

Gam

Don Juan
Joined
May 29, 2011
Messages
19
Reaction score
0
It seems you walked away from that accident with more than just your life. You've gained a new found perception of the world and that's a good thing. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Hoping things go well with your grandpa
 
Top