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CaptainSaveAh0

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Hey guys,

I am fairly young and pretty new to the game. I am always up for learning new things especially from people that have been in the game for awhile.

What would you say is the most valuable thing you learnt about women, and any advice to someone just starting off like myself?

I know this is fairly broad and general but I am interested in hearing some good advice especially before I hit up downtown this weekend.
 

Rust Newman

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GotED?

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"ALWAYS BE ABLE TO WALK AWAY FROM ANY WOMAN AT ANYTIME"

As a born again DJ after AFC DiabloI,II,&III episodes in the past, this is my KEY to being a true DJ. If you perfect this tactic - to be able to walk away at anytime from a woman, you will assert the following automatically:

* Keep your frame
* Become emotionally detached (you must if you can walk away at anytime)
* Become indifferent
* Make her qualify herself to you
* Keep your self-respect and self-love
* Appearance of confidence and having options

I find it most useful when I actually TELL the woman I meet in the beginning on examples in the past when I have walked away when a woman severely pisses me off (you must qualify WHY you walk away, or else you are just a manipulator). This will condition her behavior and mind to not phuck with me, and any disrespect - I won't tolerate as my boundary is specifically explained ahead of time. This is setting my frame for the relationship (if there ever becomes one).

Lastly, annoying as it is - dating a woman on a 1st, 2nd, or 3rd dates is full of BULLSH!T discovery of her B!tch shield or games. You must be able to express your ability to WALK AWAY - and actually DOING IT when she SH!T tests you severely. Just talking the talk and not walking the walk makes you an AFC in women's eyes. If she calls your bluff and you WALK - she will be in HAMSTER-SHOCK, and may just chase after you after you NEXT her.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

Johnny Alias

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Make a woman laugh and you get to fvck her... and when you fvck her make her orgasm twice before you do once.

Sounds simple right? That's because it is.

GotED's right... DO NOT BECOME ATTACHED. ALWAYS BE WILLING TO WALK AWAY even if you have nothing lined up.

Pay attention to Red Flags in the beginning as well. Crap that bothers you now will only get worse. Past behavior is the BEST indicator of future behavior.

The hotter they are the odds of them being a kook go up exponentially. Remember any woman can put a good mask up for a while... but it will drop eventually. Alcohol is good for both testing them out for WHACK job behavior and for getting them in the sack.

And remember the old adage... no matter how hot she is... some guy some where is sick and tired of her shvt...

good luck...
 

PeasantPlayer

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What do you mean by make her qualify herself to you? I get it, but I want to make sure I get it....lol
 

Epimanes

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Just remember.. All women are psycho. Its just a matter of screening for the one you can put up with.
 

El Suave

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Don't be afraid to hurt a woman emotionally. It will make her bond with you stronger.
 

Atom Smasher

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A woman will believe whatever you convey that you believe about yourself.

Women are followers and have virtually zero internal locus of control. They take all their social and belief cues from outside sources. There is close to zero intellectual and moral substance within that hot little body. She is vapid and empty, in terms of character substance and motivation. She merely reflects her environment. She is not a force, but a leaf in the wind.

Be the wind.
 

RagingBalls

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1. Don't ever had ONEITIS.
2. NO women will EVER be SATISFIED.
3. Don't revolve your life and your happiness only to women.
4. Some women are much more ayseholes than men.
5. Always judge women by their actions and not by their words.
 

MOTU

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Epimanes said:
Just remember.. All women are psycho. Its just a matter of screening for the one you can put up with.
^^^^ haha good stuff, repped!
 

samspade

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The most important thing I can say about women, off the top of my head, is that feelings always trump logic with them. Don't convince. Seduce.

My general advice is to have fun and not take any one woman too seriously. Don't take yourself too seriously, either.
 

JoeMarron

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Don't chase, invest less than her, tease the fvck outta her, fvck her silly=love slave.
 

Maximus Rex

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What I've Learned From the Game

1) When follow and obey the Rules of the Game, you'll be rewarded. The strategies and tactics that were developed by the PUAs work, you just have to be willing to practice and perfect your game.

2) When a Hoe Leaves Your A$$, Don’t Try to Figure it Out.

“All women are fickle. Hoes are no different. Women function on 99.9% emotions. B*tches leave for the dumbest reasons or no reason at all. Least of all the reason you think it is. And I’ll tell you something else, if you know why the hoe left, you weren’t pimpin’. If a real pimp spots a problem he’s obligated to solve it. That’s why when a hoe leaves you’re not suppose to know why.”-Rosebudd
 

CaptainSaveAh0

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This is some solid advice , thx guys... I made this thread because I wanted some quality advice on game from people with experience, not some negative jaded opinions that some guys bring on here who have no experience at all except being heart broken or manipulated by a woman and making butthurt derogatory posts to the whole female gender.
 

goodganji44

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The biggest damage to a woman's ego is the thought of being replaced. ALL women can be replaced. Use this knowledge wisely. Because you will have to convey that to any woman you get serious with.
 

Arthy

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A girl which is interested in you, wont confuse you. If you feel like asking for an advice on ss on how to deal with a woman who is giving you a hard time, save your time and dump her.
 
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