"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does her 10 year old brother being there, validate me not making a move? I would have.She was physical and gave all the signs.We made eye contact when we were 5 in from eachothers noses and held it for like 4 sec,then I darted my eyes in her brother direction and back at her.I think she got it,but the point is, should I have made a move anyway?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One more thing:Are there any lines/topics of conversation/things I can do to create an opportunity for a kiss?(Funny,witty,and forward preferably)
 
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Get her brother involved. Maybe she likes that kinda stuff.




But seriously, ask her you want to know if your kisses are as good as you hear, then put one on her.
 
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That'd work great.Just start talking about kissing then pull that line out.Perfect.Anything else guys?
 
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And If I wanted to make out w/ her I'd just basicly give her more little kisses, lick her lips and go from there, correct?(What I do most of the time)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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