"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Valentines- what will you do?

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Lion

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I've started to "worry" about valentines, what I'm gonna do with my girl (of only 1 month :crazy: ). I fancy doing something different, not the usual meal out or helping her cook!

If I was with a girl that I had been seeing for much longer, I'd go on a day trip to a big city abroad. But that's far too extravagant for this situation. Really stuck for ideas.

What are you guys doing? :flowers:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm going to blow up hallmark for making my life so f*cking difficult.:trouble:
 
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mpimpin

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Lion said:
I've started to "worry" about valentines, what I'm gonna do with my girl (of only 1 month :crazy: ). I fancy doing something different, not the usual meal out or helping her cook!

If I was with a girl that I had been seeing for much longer, I'd go on a day trip to a big city abroad. But that's far too extravagant for this situation. Really stuck for ideas.

What are you guys doing? :flowers:
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I'm in the same situation. But I think I'm just gonna keep things simple. I don't really see a reason to make it such a big thing.
 
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PRMoon said:
I'm going to blow up hallmark for making my life so f*cking difficult.:trouble:
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not if I beat you to it :box:

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