"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Valentines- what will you do?

Lion

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I've started to "worry" about valentines, what I'm gonna do with my girl (of only 1 month :crazy: ). I fancy doing something different, not the usual meal out or helping her cook!

If I was with a girl that I had been seeing for much longer, I'd go on a day trip to a big city abroad. But that's far too extravagant for this situation. Really stuck for ideas.

What are you guys doing? :flowers:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon

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I'm going to blow up hallmark for making my life so f*cking difficult.:trouble:
 

mpimpin

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Lion said:
I've started to "worry" about valentines, what I'm gonna do with my girl (of only 1 month :crazy: ). I fancy doing something different, not the usual meal out or helping her cook!

If I was with a girl that I had been seeing for much longer, I'd go on a day trip to a big city abroad. But that's far too extravagant for this situation. Really stuck for ideas.

What are you guys doing? :flowers:

I'm in the same situation. But I think I'm just gonna keep things simple. I don't really see a reason to make it such a big thing.
 

comic_relief

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PRMoon said:
I'm going to blow up hallmark for making my life so f*cking difficult.:trouble:
not if I beat you to it :box:

comic_relief
 
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