"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentines Day

everywomanshero

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Here is my valentines day plan:

IM picking her up

We both have presents. Equal investment.

Romantic (candle light) take home dinner because restaruants will be too slow and crowded. Think isolation.

Homemade chocolate covered strawberries

Wine (for effect)

Heated massage oil. Excuse to remove clothing :)

Love making music (OK so I downloaded and burned)

If I can't lay the pipe tomorrow, it's never going to happen with this girl :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ShizamDaMan

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Sounds good and cheap. Let us know how it goes.
 
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